When do you think a guy goes too far in wanting to get to know you? What do you do?
2006-10-05 05:54:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I once had a guy I knew, who was very infatuated with me. I let him know that I was not attracted to him, but was friends with him. One day he came by my house, and I was not in the mood to talk to him, so I didn't answer the door. He proceeded to look in the front windows, and even went to the side of the house to try to get into the back yard to get to my window. The gate was locked so he could no get in. He hung around for about 20 minutes, then went on his way. This scared the crap out of me.
2006-10-05 05:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are starting to feel threatened. Not that you think that he would harm you, but that you feel your very privacy is being invaded. Is he there every time you turn around? Does someone call you and not say anything when you answer the phone.?
A secret admirerer can become a stalker. Keep your eyes and ears open... because it could become dangerous. The world is full of crazy people. Also, share your worries with people around you that you are close to.... Good luck!
2006-10-05 06:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by tigerstripe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a secret admire becomes a stalker, when he starts going to far. you go to far by continuing to be the "secret admire". show your face..... that's the best way to get the girl you want. good luck
2006-10-05 05:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have told him "no thank you" and he still is confused then crush him quickly let him know you will take whatever action needed to remove him from your sight. I had this issue before I couldn't figure out how to get ride of him with out legal involvement to at the last minute I told him I was seeing some one and was in love never heard from him since. Some men despise the thought of anyone touching you but them so they move on
2006-10-05 06:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He becomes a stalker when he shows up in unexpected places everyday! When that happens, it is time to take out a restraining order.
2006-10-05 06:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly tell him that he is pushing his limits. Let him know you're feeling uncomfortable, and he's creepy you out. Don't be shy, just be straight forward about it. It doesn't sound like you really like this guy, so don't worry about him not liking you anymore.
If telling him how you feel fails, then get a restraining order. That will show him you're serious.
2006-10-05 05:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jane D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thnk ahead on the starting up. if she calls u will u be waiting to flat out tell her who u ar? and if so can u take care of a bf if she has one? and what if u ultimately finally end up now no longer liking her personality? seems arent each and every and each and every thing. yet even as ur pleased with the answer to all thes questions. pick for it. i kno ifsomeone did that for me i might want to sense reaallly loved. lol yet both way i say pick for it. XD
2016-12-04 07:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy standing outside my house looking in the window. That is creepy, thats too far.
I'd say as soon as they start making you uncomfortable. And they ignore your requests to be left alone.
The first thing is to tell them to leave you alone.
2006-10-05 05:56:47 · answer #8 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he stays outside of your window at all hours of the night..
You should definitely call the police and get a restaining order on him to let him know that you don't take crap from anyone
2006-10-05 05:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when a guy is constantly calling you, showing up in places you are at, following you in their car and sending letters to you in the mail, this is stalking, you can fill a police report out or get a restraining order.
2006-10-05 06:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋