Me and my boyfriend lived together for 14 months then one night he up and left, now he wants to get back together but living at seperate homes, SHould I try it this way? It isn't really what I wanted, I want him to move back in but he doesn't want that...
2006-10-05 05:52:00 · 5 answers · asked by ROCKER_CHICK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give it a try...if you really love him...at least it may just work out ...or he may change his mind and move back in after some time
2006-10-05 05:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by docKnowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always ask myself "Is this the type of relationship I wanted when I would dream of one when I was little?" Of course, within reason, you have to outway the good and bad, but...truly, if someone just ups and leaves then wants back in...I don't know if I would feel that I should go through the rebuilding of a relationship based on his schedule only. Why not tell him you are thinking about maybe getting back together but would like to wait 3 months to see how you really feel about it. If he is serious, he will wait, if not...you can move on knowing you saved yourself the heartache.
2006-10-05 06:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by t-bone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start meeting girls. They will understand your needs more. Just forget about guys. Your answer lies within the female race. Trust me you wont regret it.
2006-10-05 05:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by ast5792 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him a try,
maybe he just felt like he needed his space. and by leaving he realized what he lost and he wants it back.
2006-10-05 05:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Nezza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS GUY IS AFAID OF COMMITMENT. IT IS YOUR CALL.
2006-10-05 05:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by roll tide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋