He told me this after spending time with me for over a month,and now I've caught some feelings.Why didnt he tell me in the begining?He never tried to sleep with me or anything,but he gave me incrediable oral.I'm so confused.Why would he lie,and then tell me out the blue?Men answer please,women too if you have some advice....
2006-10-05 05:51:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He didn't tell you because he knew that you would most likely stop seeing him. He waited until he thought that you had feelings for him and wouldn't be able to end it so easily, or at least without some hurt on your part. He was hoping to have you so tied to him that he might be able to have you and the others as well, and that you would get past the "sharing" him part of the deal.
Advice is get over what ever feelings that you might have for him and drop him. If he is doing this in the beginning, then just imagine what he will do when you are really in love with him and are willing to forgive him so much more.
2006-10-05 06:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least he's now honest. But if you're looking for something more on the one-one level then you need to find a new guy. You can't change a guy like this no matter what, he has to change his self. If you stick around you might get hurt or an STD. Good Luck!
2006-10-05 12:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it obvious ?? He didn't tell you in the beginning because you might have not let him do oral. Now that he's done it he's coming clean so you dont think your anybody special. He's a real piece of work. Dump this loser immediately.
2006-10-05 12:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably lying, trying to make himself out to be a player. ive been there guys like are normally insecure and feel the need 4 a girl to hurt to boost his ego
2006-10-05 12:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it better that you found out now than later? Give up this loser and find someone who isn't busy with other extracurricular activities on the side.
2006-10-05 12:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a player...stay away and get tested for std's ...Good luck!!He only told you all this so he'd get away with it and clear his conscience. Dump him and move on before you get hurt worse
2006-10-05 12:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe one of the others found out, so he needed to end it with you (and maybe even some of the others).
2006-10-05 12:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay with him - you do not want to hurt his feelings - tell him you understand that he needs more than one girlfriend
2006-10-05 12:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either really likes you and wants to be honest with you or he doesn't want things to get serious between you.
2006-10-05 12:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ask ?
2006-10-05 12:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋