recentely ive being dumped and ive got so upset ive never being so upset
who can help me plz...?
2006-10-05 05:44:39 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some friends together and go out! It will help!
2006-10-05 05:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can either wallow in your own self pity by Playing loads of soppy music, eating lots of chocolate and drinking lots of wine, or GET BACK IN THE GAME!! Sorry, in all seriousness in depends how long you were together, I mean if it was a short term thing then there's plenty more fish in the sea lovely, you've just gotta pick ya-self back up and get out there. The same if it was a long term thing it'll just take a bit longer to readjust.
I was with this guy for three years, it was a bad split and it broke my heart. I wouldn't look at anyone else let alone talk to them for ages, but ya know what I wish I had just got straight back out there because sometimes it can be the best therapy, just to have a bit of fun and meet new people. It takes your mind off things and draws you away from the problem, until after a while you start to feel better about it. Yeah you may come across other little hi cups along the way but by then you've become a stronger person and can deal with whats thrown at you. It's all life experience. Go out and do something you enjoy, take up a hobbie. Being single doesn't have to be a lonely process. Good time not a long that's what I say, Life's for living , enjoy it. and Good luck xxxxxxxxxxxx
2006-10-05 06:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by crazychicklisieloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im In The Same Situation, 3 Months Ago It Happened And I Still Ant Got Over It :( Am Well Upset... Dont Rush Into A Relationship Now.. Chill Out.. Sort Your Life Out.. Next Time I Have A Woman I Will Have A House, Car And Better Job.... Thats What You Need Then You Can Settle Down..
2006-10-05 05:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHORT TERM: get your peeps around you--it feels better to vent with people who always take your side. Also, throw yourself into something that feels good and that you're good at (like work, or another relationship or running or whatever). Maybe a little pitty party is okay, but don't do something you will regret.
LONG TERM: the best "revenge" for being dumped is becoming even better than you were before--more attractive, or better at the things you might regret from that relationship. This makes you feel better and this way the next time you see your ex he will wonder why he was so dumb to let you go.
2006-10-05 05:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by cedar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through this heartbreak about 8 years ago and never thought I would get over my ex. It was really hard. Time, they say is a great healer. Cliched but true. It got easier. There were nights when I used to dream of him and it was so real, I would think we were still together. I would wake up with the realisation that he wasn't there and not want to face the world.
These days, I am with a man whom I love very much. We have 2 children and are very happy which is my point. Be happy and remember, life is too short.
2006-10-05 05:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by TashaLou1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For every door that closes another opens. It does not matter the reason that it did not work out. Maybe you have already learned the life lesson that brought you together in the first place. Maybe if you realize that by closing the door with that man you have the opportunity to be happier, be loved more, and grow you might feel better that there is an even better prince behind door #2or #200 either way being loved by more than one person allows us to feel all kinds of love. Think about the future good times and forget the negative creep who broke your heart but thank him for allowing even more love into your life.Feel Better
2006-10-05 05:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by luvmetrulyholywow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your loss. My best advice would be to a) express your feelings in some way or another. You could anything really poetry or writing, art, music, exercise. Whatever floats your boat. b) spend time with friends and family. As much as you want to just stay home alone and cry you WILL feel better after getting out and doing things, being social. Last but not least don't be afraid to talk about your feelings with people you care about!
2006-10-05 05:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Emily B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people are different. Some like to be left alone.. which in that case, rent some movies, buy some drinks, and get your mind off of him. If you are the type that doesnt mind the company.. get a bunch of your friends together and go to a nice club.. or a nice lounge. Anything to get your mind off of him and have fun. You might wind up seeing what else is out there. It's his loss so don't be down..
2006-10-05 05:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mel and Ed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat looks of fatting comfort foods, set at home a few days depressed and then find someone else. It's going to hurt for a little while and then get back out there and find another man because it will make you feel better to be in the comfort of someone else.
2006-10-05 05:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty shitty I must say first of all.
Sorry to hear about it.
But there's really little you can do that won't have serious consequences.
Eating gets you fat
Shopping makes you broke.
Another man might either mean unwanted baggage or some stupid fling that you end up regretting.
I always say a good cry is the best.
get all your feelings out and then once you have done that... you can always plot revenge if you think he deserves it (lol!)
Good Luck and be strong
2006-10-05 05:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well after being dumped huh? u seem to think what you did wrong right? but it might of been him..the best way i comfort myself after being dumped is curling up with mocha almond fudge ice cream and watch a movie..it helps me not think about what had just happnd and try to cheer me up..or go talk to a friend..ur friends will always be there for you..even when a guy isnt
2006-10-05 05:50:09 · answer #11 · answered by Mj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋