at a party with 5 guys at the same time. According to a friend of mine she was drunk and on drugs at the time, and was seen going into a bedroom with 5 guys, they were in there for an hour and a half and people could hear her moaning and groaning and the guys cheering and moaning too. I confronted her and she told me that she was drunk/high and did it because of this. I took her back but am now having 2nd thoughts. What do i do?
2006-10-05 05:42:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beautifully broken Said:
"If you are with someone who is under the influence it's considered rape!"
I'd just like to point out that this is WRONG. Just so anyone who read that knows.
2006-10-05 06:16:16 · update #1
what's the chances of a person having an std... now multiply that chance by five... and add on to that because of their possbile sexual deviance. For me it's simple, I don't want to kiss lips that have sucked off other guys.
So yeah, second thoughts is probably a good idea... but your second thought should be the last thought which should result in dropping this one.
I had a girlfriend who had been with several guys... I broke up with her, I told her I didn't like the used car smell. I never did anything with her, and I'm glad for it. Last I heard she had come down with some STD.
Drop the gang bang queen... I"m surprised she wasn't paid.
2006-10-05 05:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by bigcatbarber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You accepted her excuse of cheating because she was drunk/high. That is NOT is excuse for cheating. That is just an EXCUSE to do something you want to. She might ot act a different way when she's sober, but it doesn't matter. If a guy hit a girl and his excuse was that he was drunk, do you think that is okay? Hell, no. Being drunk/ high can bring out the worst side of someone, and makes you understand what they are capable of. You cannot control her being high or drunk. She'll do it again.
2006-10-05 05:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Katie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its one thing if she was passed out and incoherent for the actions that took place. But she took the drugs and alcohol and became uninhibited and committed these acts.
Most may not agree with me, but when a person is drunk or high you see the true person. The things they say and do are things that they just keep to themselves in normal situations because morals are holding them back, but it all comes out when they have consumed the drugs or alcohol.
You have seen her true side. What you do with it is all up to you.
2006-10-05 05:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody that cheats has an excuse dont they ? Is being drunk and on drugs a good reason if there ever was one ? And 5 guys at the same time ?? yuck.
2006-10-05 05:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeeeewwwww.dump her, get tested for std's and stay away! Drunk/high no excuse...those guys were actually breaking the law. If you are with someone who is under the influence it's considered rape! Good luck!
2006-10-05 05:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It is going to be really hard to TRULY forgive her. She is lucky you are even talking to her. Your pride as a man is going to be tested, b/c in the back of your mind you know what she did and will always wonder if she will do that again. You don't need that type of drama in your life. No one does.
2006-10-05 05:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is getting drunk and doing drugs and having gang bang sex with multiple partners WITHOUT you, then WHY are you still there?
Dude, grow some f*cking ballz, cowboy the f*ck up, and get out of there!
2006-10-05 05:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she truely loved you she would not have allowed herself to get that wasted and do something so promiscious. If she's been your girlfriend for awhile I'd suggest a break to give you time to think things over but... if shes a fling i'd keep her around cause damn, shes a freak!
2006-10-05 06:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lacee_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself. You took her back. Its not her bad. You need to figure out your priorties. Um she goes to parties with out you and does drugs. I am sure this is ok with you because you do it too. What do you expect?
2006-10-05 05:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really dump her...did u do drugs too? It's amazing how shocked I am at people these days. God doesn't appreciate these kind of things. You need to pray for her....
2006-10-05 06:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jellybean_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋