I've been talking to a girl for about 3 weeks now. When people started finding out, a lot of people were concerned. In one day, over 10 people came up to me and told me what I mistake I was making. I gave her a chance anyway.
Well, she treats this one guy that likes her like ****. She always comes up with an excuse to not do anything with him. That kind of put up a warning flag right away.
I told her right off the bat, I'm not going to be treated like that. Well, she and I talk everyday and we hung out for a while Monday and Tuesday night. Tuesday night as she was leaving she asked me to go to a Poetry reading my suitemate was hosting on Wednesday. I said ok.
Wednesday afternoon she asked me to hangout around 9:00pm. I agreed. Later the afternoon, she cancelled to poetry reading to do homework. 8:45 rolled around and I called to see if we were still hanging out. She didn't pick up. She called about 10 minutes later saying she was tired. Am I investing in a lost cause?
2006-10-05 05:41:19 · 4 answers · asked by mazter_ace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
=seems like history is repeating itself again here. She is doing the very same thing to you that she did to the other guy even after you told her that you weren't going to be treated like that. You said "that kind of put up a warning read flag?" Listen to your instincts and save yourself a lot of grief. Good luck.
2006-10-05 08:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You give her three chances to fcuk up. The poetry thing was no. 1. Set a limit to what you're going to take and stick to it. Simple
2006-10-05 12:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE PROBABLY ALREADY SENSE THAT YOU ARE LOSING INTEREST AND SHE IS TRYING TO BACK OFF FIRST BEFORE YOU DO.
2006-10-05 12:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by roll tide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are.
2006-10-05 12:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋