My b/f watches porn and I have caught him in the act a few time and he does it when i'm in the house i don't understand that? and I talked to him about it and he told me his going to do it for the rest of his life regardless if i like it or not and he said he would even do it in front of me if he had the chance. He watch internet porn everyday twice a day. Wouldn't that lead to cheating in the long run? also he told his best girlfriend that if she has caught her b/f masturbating and she said "yes, I would give it to everyday" and he comes and tells me "his stupid,i don't why he does it if he has a girl that would give it to him everyday". So that means that he masturbates b/c i don't give it to him everyday. I do not understand guys. Sometimes we have sex twice a day and he still watches porn so what is the point of us girls giving guys sex when they have there porn, why does he even need me there for?
2006-10-05 05:40:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm.
Get out b4 you have kids.
2006-10-05 05:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-26 04:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Charlotte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand men are really horny I mean you would have to have sex with him like 5 to 6 times a day and still would watch it. Do you do all the things he wants? when was the last time you blow him seriuosly. Porn is a way to escape not cheat its like why do women like to shop? I mean you have everything but you still go out to the mall and look around. Its just are thing dont worry so much about it
2006-10-05 05:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Porn is fun for most people. It's only a problem when it becomes a substitute for normal sex or is addictive. I think your b/f is yes on both counts. Doing it when you're away or together with you is one thing, but he's stepping over the line. Since he insists on keeping doing it and you don't like it, you may want to leave
2006-10-05 05:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are biologically "pre-wired" to be visually excited, which is why you see more men watching pornography than women. Immaturity is a big part of it too - ask your boyfriend if he would rather masturbate or have sex with a REAL woman. If his taste for pornography really turns you off, find another boyfriend. I have seen pornography, but after knowing that a lot of the women in it are being exploited (some are being forced to do it, so technically it is RAPE) that turned me off to it forever. I would rather see an erotic movie than two (or more) people faking moans and groans that are just paid actors having sex for the camera - to me, that is just not sexy - its boring, and "tasteless".
2006-10-05 05:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Paul H 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I found some interesting theories about non-sexual reasons for porn addiction on http://www.porn-addiction-therapy.net.tf ...
This author, Mario Brocallo, says more or less that porn can be an escape from different other problems
2006-10-09 03:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by bug n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be so condescending put silly little girl, your man just likes porn and there is nothing wrong with that. it doesnt mean he doesnt like you or he's going to cheat, all it means is he likes to see beautiful girls naked. so men given the chance would watch porn all day and still sleep with his girl get over it and stop being jealous over video tapes. grow up get a vibrator and show him you like to feel good all the time also.
2006-10-05 05:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by bigmj75 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Porn can be an addiciton to some men. It does not mean that you are doing anything wrong. It has to do with sexual fantasies. See a therapist with him, if he is unwilling, get a man that will respect you and spend his time with you and not the T.V.
2006-10-05 05:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its different when you watch and masturbate because its a fantasy. Girls do it too. Its very normal and no it doesn't lead to cheating as long as everything else is fine in your relationship!!
2006-10-05 05:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not about you. We do it out of our need to possess as many women as possible. Porn alows us to do this on the cheap without any actual work. You can have as much a sex as you want will, it will not stop. So accept it or move on.
2006-10-05 05:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by DR 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If he's at home jerking off to porn, you dont have to worry about him cheating. if he stops doing it thats when you should worry. you should probably join in. you might enjoy it. My girl loves porn.
2006-10-05 05:50:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋