My gf and I had been dating for 3 years. we never had any major problems...about 3 years in I felt smothered and decided I needed a break. I told her this and we took our break. During this break I went out with friends alot to clubs, I met other girls and talked to them but never did anything physical. I would still talk to my GF everyday and tell her i loved her..... we went out a couple times a week....I did act like a completel asshole sometimes though.... About a month into the break I found out she went out on a date with another guy and he spent the night at her house (nothing happened). When i found out i told her she could choose me or him. A day later she tells me that now she needed the break. things got more and more serious with this guy(he was complete white trash) and i would talk to her and try to warn her about what type of guy he was...(he already had one girl pregnant). she disregarded everything I said. A week after meeting this guy she had sex with him 3 times. 2
2006-10-05 05:39:14 · 5 answers · asked by 2nice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
times without a condom. After they fell apart she came crawling back to me. I asked her why she slept with him and she said she didnt want to but he kind of forced her into it. She said she cried after it happened. So i said if you didnt like it the first time why do it again? she said she wanted to make herself feel like it meant something and she hadnt been used...... she also said that she probably did it to try and get over me since we were both virgins when we met and she felt that her only being with me was tieing her to me.... none of these sound like real reasons to me. what to you think. would a real reason be that she actually liked him.......
2006-10-05 05:42:14 · update #1
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2006-10-05 06:00:43 · update #2
Good for her. She should have done it in your bed with you watching. What did you expect? Anyone in their right mind would know that being together for 3 years and deciding to take a break is a break. You just want what you can't have.
2006-10-05 05:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful what you ask for. You wanted the break so that's what you got don't get upset now that she slept with someone.Maybe you should have be clearer on what kind of "break this really was"I'm not saying sleeping with someone you just meet is right I couldn't do it, but you gave her the green light. So step back and think about you for a while just let her do her thing and you do yours.
2006-10-05 12:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes, if u really love her give her a chance and be the bigger person. Dont judge her for what she did and apologyze for being a complete a**, i know that she will apologyze to u too, and if those are her reasons (he might have raped her) she felt confused, It wasnt good of her to sleep with him 2 other times but u have to understand her point of view, ask her what happened (in a concerned voice) (and in person) and listen to her, Just be there for her and love her. Be nice to her and take care of her. I feel that u love her alot and I know she loves u too. Good LUck
2006-10-05 12:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did it 3 times because she liked it. Don't fool yourself into thinking that she didn't.
2006-10-05 12:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try and do some changing and prove you are the right one for her!!!
2006-10-05 12:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋