my gf is 5 months pregnant with twins
her parents threw her out and now she is sleeping in the car
i have a small studio with a twin bed and sofa
barely big enough for me i also have 2 dogs which dont like her and they occupied the sofa
i dont know if i should let her stay with me
but i confuse cuz i dont want to inconvenece my dogs
they will fight all the time
what should i do
2006-10-05 04:52:23 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
get a bigger place/ your girlfriend is homeless. and having your kids
2006-10-05 04:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
it's kind of scary that your more worried about inconvencing your dogs more then the life of your children. Let her stay with you until she can get emergency assistance like the other person said. If you can fit a twin bed AND a sofa into your studio apartment, theres no reason why she cant sleep on the sofa.
Why would your dogs fight becuase there is someone else in the house?
2006-10-05 20:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't stay with you take today or tomorrow off of work and go with her to find some sort of shelter for her to live in. Check the internet for places, and also just call around to your local government agencies, they'll be able to point you in the right direction. Also talk to her OBGYN they'll have resources for you. In the mean time, deal with the dogs fighting, or let them sleep in the car until she gets another place. Or even let her have the bed and you sleep on the couch. The dogs will be less jealous if it's you that's taking their bed. Worst comes to worst call an animal shelter and ask if they do temp housing. Explain the situation, I'm sure thye'll be able to help you out for a couple nights. It's just not right for you to have her sleeping in the car.
2006-10-05 05:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa, That's me! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say this, but you are a jerk for even thinking about what you should do. She is pregnant and sleeping in a car. You need to get a bigger apartment and have her move in with you. If your dogs don't start to get along with her, than I think it's time you find somewhere else for your dogs to go. After all what's more important to you, your girlfriend and the babies? or your dogs? I'd have dumped you long ago if you didn't ask me to move in with you and you take better care of your dogs than you do your girlfriend and the babies? You should be ashamed of yourself for even asking such a question. What is more important to you ?
2006-10-05 05:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by danielle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez what a difficult decision!! If you have to decide between your dogs & your pregnant girlfriend that is carrying your twins & sleeping in a car then you are the biggest jerk ever & you will make a horrible father.
You should advise your girlfriend now that your dogs are more important to you than she & the babies are so that she can start trying to find someone that will actually love & protect her!
Good grief are you really serious?!
You make me sick!
2006-10-05 05:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by sweetamberwaves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um lets see,ur g/f is 5mos pregnant w/twins might I add and ur contemplating if u should leave her and ur children homeless.How could u even ask urself a question like that,dude kick the dogs to the curb or better yet help ur g/f get assistance and then the government can pay u back w/child support (to her)
2006-10-05 05:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke? You don't want to inconvenience your dogs? I don't see the problem. It is obvious that you need to make arrangements for the dogs. Get a friend to take the dogs or something like that. You are talking about the mother of your children and you are letting her sleep in the car. Get your priorities straight.
2006-10-05 05:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by suz' 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you got her pregnant, you should really take responsibility for your actions and help care for her. What are dogs compared to the health of your future babies? Why not the dogs sleep in a car? If you don't think it would work, help her find a place to stay, through friends, DHS, or something.
2006-10-05 04:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You've gotten well over a hundred answers for this question that you've asked a multitude of times. If your really that cold hearted and need to continue asking then, your g/f and the babies would be better off without you. When she has them, are you going to let her and the babies sleep in the cold car? This is stupid. You need to be a man and take care of your responsibilities. You got her pregnant, now take care of her. The dogs can go !!!!!
2006-10-05 04:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by pritigrl 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Dude your girlfriend is preg with your children and you don't know if you should let her stay with you cause it will be a inconvenience to your dogs??? That whole question is totally wrong!! YES YOU SHOULD LET HER STAY WITH YOU!! YOUR CHILDREN COME FIRST!! THE DOGS ARE JUST GONNA HAVE TO LIVE WITH IT!! THEY WILL ADJUST TO HER TRUST ME!! you are being selfish because of your dogs feelings!! I BOOOOO you!! If she is five months preg you should have already looked for another place that is bigger and had her move in a long time ago!!! >:( I'm glad you lost thirty points for that question you asked over and over agian!!
2006-10-05 05:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, take responsibility for your actions. Find a home for your dogs and get the mother of your children off the streets.
2006-10-05 05:02:35 · answer #11 · answered by The Answer Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋