we ben broken up for like 2 -1/2 weeks . i try 2 talk 2 here about why she broke up but doesnt want 2 talk about it she says she just wants to be bestfriends but she doesnt want to hange out.
she just wants 2 be with here other friend thats a girl and just drink all day but win she gets home she calls me like last night she call and call me baby and i sayed what u say and she said im sorry. she ask me why cant we talk like friends. but this story run deeper i ask here to marrie me last xmas and got here a 1600 ring but dosent want 2 give it back. whats weard is that win i say im going 2 go see other people she gets weard about it she gets made but were not 2 geater. win we talk on the phone we just talk about what u do that day and stuff like that i dont know if she playing mind games or what the hell she doing and some one plz help me out this is driving me crazy
2006-10-05 04:44:47 · 12 answers · asked by lorna tarango 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move out
2006-10-05 04:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by leeroycom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get that ring back. Use your key, go into her house and take it. She ended the relationship, therefore she returns the ring. Thats how it works.
I also suggest dropping her. She seems shady and a manipulative little wench. She wants to have her f*** buddies, and keep you on the side until she gets it out of her system, which is completly unfair to you.
Go get another girl and leave the old one in the dust. She doesn't respect you enough to be a good girlfriend.
2006-10-05 11:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wants to have her cake and eat it too. Shes is being a selfish B**** and not remotely considering your feelings. You are allowing her to take advantage of you. She doesnt want a relationship but she wants to invade your home, she doesnt want to marry you but she wont give you the ring back (BTW, legally, she should).
Stop being a doormat and tell her you dont want anything else to do with her. And if the ring thing means that much to you, sue her for it. If she plays like she 'lost' it, then she will have to pay the value of it.
2006-10-05 11:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe she is just not ready for that type of commitment. However on the other hand she still loves you. Nonetheless she cannot keep stringing you along for her silly mind games. I hate to say it but sometimes us women (men do it too) feel like we have to still be number one even if we do not want the full committment that goes along with it. Tell her how you honestly feel and if she doens't understand maybe being freinds is not going to work, however once you leave don't return that makes it harder on you. DONT 4GET THE RING
2006-10-05 11:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by rochelle9588 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is strange behavior myself but maybe she is just freaking out about the thought of getting married or something. Maybe she is wanting to just sow some wild oats for a while. It doesn't sound like she is interested in seeing other men either. Personally I think you should corner her and tell her you want the ring back if you two are breaking up. My fiance gave one of his exes his mother's engagement ring that she gave him for her then when they broke up he had to get the ring back. There is nothing wrong with still being friends but she needs to let you go have your own life if she doesn't want you anymore.
2006-10-05 11:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by snail 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's keeping you on the back burner because she's afraid of commitment, but wants to fall back on you in the event that something easy dose not come along. if she wants friendship, tell her you will be a friend, but a friend would give your ring back and don't pay her any attention. then cut your losses and move on since she obviously isn't mature enough for you.
2006-10-05 11:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by HighFlyer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes playing mind games. Dont be her friend. Cut off all contact with her. Ask for the ring back unless you gave it to her as a gift. Good luck to you. Dont let her play with your mind and emotions anymore. Take care
2006-10-05 11:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is going on a fling and wants to keep you around incase things don't work out. She is playing you like an Ace of hearts. Cut off all contacts with her even if you have to change your number. Leave her out of your life and you will be better off
2006-10-05 11:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why, and if no response, tell her to stop bothering you.
Get back the engagement ring and next time be more careful who you get involved with.
She sounds like an uncaring real low life.
2006-10-05 11:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the ring back and get a big screen tv. Dump her and tell her to stay away. You will find someone else in no time flat.
2006-10-05 11:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by jose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't be a jerk, be her friend, is that so hard? She may have reasons for breaking up with you and maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.... Go with it, relax and take it on the bright side, now you're free to find someone better??
2006-10-05 11:49:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋