ok well my nearly to be boyfriend is not a virgen and he wannts to have sex with me but i don't want to lose my virginity yet. what can i do to please him in other ways?
2006-10-05 04:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by abercrombie babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but he not pushing at all. he respects me that i don't want to.
2006-10-05 04:41:34 · update #1
buy him a hooker
2006-10-05 04:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably nothing kiddo. Anything sexual, that's is not actually sex, will lead to him being sexually aroused anyway. If you're not ready, let him know if he can't handle it, oh well. However you can also be a big girl and remain being his girlfriend but know that he'll date others.
I commend you on refraining from sex. Trust me you're not missing anything and it's not what it's cracked up to be unless you are seriously in love and seriously ready, and hopefully seriously married.
2006-10-05 11:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u dont wanna do what he wants u to do then u tell him if he dont stop askin for that one thing then hes gone have to go cuz some dudes only want one thing and then u say hes your soon to be bf well if hes askin before ya'll go 2gether then somethins wrong {he must dont wanna be wit u} when he get that one thing he gone leave ya TRUST ME iseen it happen.
2006-10-05 11:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by "$exie" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think before you do anything with this boy you should make sure you two are in a relationship....because the case my be he just wants to lose his virginity. Do what your heart tells you but don't just give in! GOOD luck!
2006-10-05 11:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by LaniChelle 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl,
well um first of all tell him u dont want to and there are other ways tell him that u are not ready yet!! and if that dont work brake up with him cuz maybe he only wantes to have sex if he keeps telling u! thats all her probley wants out of u just to give it up then he will.. sorry i dont mean to be so mean but that same thing happen with me! i hope every thing works out for you girl!
2006-10-05 11:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hand job
********
masterbate in front of him( if your willing)
Thats pretty much it unless you willing to perform Anal...
Sounds like your in a pickle, kinda suck huh?
good luck
~Cheers
2006-10-05 11:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off, make sure he knows that you dont want to do that yet....secondly...you shouldnt have to try to please him in other ways...those things should be a plus...the person should care more about being with you than how far you two go.
to please him...well lots of lil things can make guys happy!! depends on what you want to do...hand job? let him finger you? its really up to you and how far you want to go...but remember to not do ANYTHING you dont want to do
x
2006-10-05 11:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Queenie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on school and not worry about getting banged by this guy....he isn't worth it.
2006-10-05 11:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't have enough respect for you to wait till you are ready then get rid of him. Tell him if he loves you then he'll wait till you are ready. he isn't worth it if he isn't willing to wait for you.
2006-10-05 11:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by snail 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him if he's not happy. dont let him push you into something you are not ready for.
2006-10-05 11:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by crazimommi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋