HE told me because I kept asking him. I told him he did alot of gay things. We have been together for about 4 mon. he actually told me he only liked pre op. ts's and that if is impotant that they really look like a women. I am still in shock. I live in l.a I have been exposed to all lot I had ts friends but the all moved away so I can't ask them what to do. A physiologist told me that bi doesn't mean cheat. And that if he is telling me that I make him happy in every aspect of his life, what should I think? I know he has had sex with tranny's because he told me he said the last time he had sex with a ts was 1 year ago. It's crazy how he is so manly and on top of that he is asian! Now yahoo...what the hell should I do?
2006-10-05 04:02:04 · 11 answers · asked by cody 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly think you should find a new boyfriend. You should have to share your BF. being bi IS cheating. But thats what i think. If you give him that freedom of having sex with other men... YOU'LL end up with a STD. He'll think its not cheating becuase thats what you think. I honestly think you should find a new BF.
Good Luck
2006-10-05 04:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by ZaNy_kiDd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's confusing? You love him, and he's choosing to be with you. He's no more likely to cheat on you than a straight guy is likely to cheat on you with another woman. Nor is he more likely to have diseases. If you're worried what other people might think, then I think he deserves to have a girl or boy friend who loves him enough not to care about stuff like that. If you are happy together, what else matters?
2016-03-27 05:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all find out if he has been using condoms EVERY time with these people. And make sure the you use them every single time when you have sex with him. Get tested.
You have to figure out if this is something you can live with (or not) in a relationship.
2006-10-05 04:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in Los Angeles to, wanna meet lol. Seriously, thats messed up. If he was just bi, id say don't worry about it. But being ts pre op, yikes. I feel for ya on that one. His he/she going to be able to please you sexually? Superb pic by the way!
2006-10-05 06:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy!!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck! you might need to reevaluate your relationship and consider this fetish of his a serious one. Im not sure if he can give you true commitment , not even hetero men can do that. If he's not out of the closet with his sexuality maybe your relationhip is just a cover up for his family.
2006-10-05 04:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Uma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide whether you want to be with a man who sleeps with t's. If you don't then you need to break up with him. If it doesn't really bother you then, stay with him.
2006-10-05 04:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, wierd as std's are really an issue, boy this can get complicated!!!
2006-10-05 04:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a body like yours, just find a man that can handle you and meet your sexual needs and also your emotional needs!
Good luck!
2006-10-05 04:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is who he is, you either accept him or not. You don't have to get involved, but you either have to accept it or move on.
2006-10-05 04:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE THE GAY BOY
GO GET CHECKED FOR AIDS!~!!
THEN GET A REAL MAN
2006-10-05 04:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by badbad_80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋