what are women scared of relationship wise. how do you reassure everything will be ok?

Answer 1

a man that makes me feel like there is no other woman on this earth that can compare to me, but thats never gonna happen coz men are too obsessed wiv sex!!

Answer 2

In my experience women are most scared of 1st, having chosen the wrong guy to be with. They are very deeply interested in finding a mate, someone who will love them for their lives. This is not only emotional it is also biological, as women of most mammal species choose a mate who has their offspring.

So in a beginning relationship, you will always be tested to see if you are the one for them. And you may not be, so it is important in a relationship if you know that you are not going to be together to either redefine it as "fun", or to break up. It is possible to remain with a woman without her sizing you up as mate material, and who knows? Maybe you will fit the bill at some point.

Then once she knows that she could spend the rest of her life with you, everything shifts. That's when love deepens, and true intimacy becomes possible. This is usually when the guy starts to freak out most, because we as guys start to think, "have I had enough? Have I been with enough women? I don't know if I've spread my seed to enough flowers yet!"

So the deep fear for the woman NOW is that she will lose you. This is when it becomes both difficult and easy. It is easy because the ONLY thing that you need to do is shower her with affection. Not gifts, though those help. You don't have to break the bank. But you do need to come up behind her and kiss her neck, look at her every now and then and say how beautiful she is, etc. Here's the thing, if you think something nice about her SAY IT. Don't hold back.

After my first year and a half long relationship I can tell you my fiancee NEVER grows tired of hearing how much I love her. Or how beautiful she is.

So for guys, here's the problem. We have times when we don't find her all that interesting. In long term relationships we grow bored or restless sometimes, then we get worried because we think we should break it off. What is happening is that she loves you SO MUCH, and she could love you 24/7 now, because you are her chosen mate.

So their fears come up most often when we need some space. Because for guys, we often NEED time to ourselves. We need time to focus on our mission in life, and not our woman. Yet when we pull away, our women just try to follow asking, "What? What happened? Why don't you love me right now?!" And then we get frustrated and pissed off, because we just needed some space.

So let her know. let her know from time to time, for the sake of your relationship with her that you will need to step away. Take a break. Go hang with the guys, or go fishing, etc. We men need this, because for us the absence reminds us of how much we love her. I often leave for two day business trips, and my fiancee and i have the best sex when I get back. Because I remember while I am away why I like being around her.

Hope this helps. Warmest regards.

Answer 3

I am afraid that he will find someone really pretty and cheat on me, and I also worry that I am going to do something wrong and that he will break up with me and I will be alone again. I also worry that he is going to turn out gay, because that has happened to me before. Reassure by telling her you love her, and not talk about how pretty other girls are, give her hugs and kisses. And if you are gay (not saying you are) don't go out with women.

Answer 4

Women are scared that there boyfriend would cheat on them the only way to reassure everything will be o.k is to prove to her that your not going to do to her whatever she's scared about.

Answer 5

I am most reluctant to tell a man "I love you". I hold back knowing that most people say it and have no idea what the true meaning is. They say it to try and catch that person. Some guys can't understand this. But I feel that those 3 words need time to worked in.... and that takes more then a couple day, weeks, or months.

Answer 6

Women are afraid of the following things:

Being used
Being lied to
Being cheated on with the bestfriend, etc...

How to reassure, pay attention to your woman emotions and needs, and try to be there for her, when needed...and an occassional day of spoiling dosent hurt either.....

Answer 7

How can you reassure everything will be okay when you have no way of knowing that it will be? If she is uneasy about the relationship then perhaps she is not ready for it.

Answer 8

Most guys just take the p.ss dont they.
Anyway woman like compliments, your hair looks lovely, you have nice eyes, lovely teeth whatever you want to say, just dont say 'You have great ****'.
Guys messing around, lying is the worst, be helpful carry her shopping for her, treat her like a lady and with loads and loads of RESPECT. Dont ever say ' hell, that chick is sexy ', it hurts ok.
But the most important thing is respect, really , genuine.

Answer 9

for me...
1.Being taken for granteed.. i want man to always appreciate the things i do for him and visa versa
2. Becoming unattractive in his eyes.. I like to be complemented and made to feel sexy
3.Being cheated on...my man makes me feel loved so i trust him.

You receive reassurance from the way someone cares for you! xxx

Answer 10

They are scared you will use them, abuse them and dump them. You can reassure them if you tell them you're not like that. However, this generally only works if you are telling the truth.

Answer 11

Being cheated on and being used. There is no reassurance, sometimes words just aint enough and you'll just have to rely on them trusting you.