I have been nice all my life, but the females I attract dont have a sparkle in their eyes, on the other hand I see bad suckers take all the good girls. Ladies whas up which all?
2006-10-05 03:53:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause they're better in bed, usually. don't know why, don't care why. it's just what experience has shown me.
2006-10-05 03:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I answered this in a different question and hope it helps:
Some women do always ignore and don't like and appreciate the good guys, some never ignore and do appreciate and like the good guys, just as men do with women.
Here are some reasons for you:
1. Immaturity - Some women are just not mature enough to appreciate a good guy. As they mature and especially if they date some losers, hopefully they gain wisdom and realize the error of their ways.
2. Stupidy - Some women are just plain stupid.
3. Turned off by personality. When guys act desparate and unsure of themselves. Espcially if they are smothering. How can you be happy with someone else if you can't be happy with yourself.
4. Busy - Some women are busy with their careers and if they have children, trying to raise them and take care of their home and the duties that go along with it. A lot of single moms experience this.
5. Emotional Issues - Some women have emotional issues from past relationships that they haven't resolved and need to be resolved before they can move on to even date anyone.
6. Moving TOO FAST in a relationship. - Why not enjoy just being friends with the understanding between the man and the women that it will just be that and wait and see what happens. People need to get to know each other as friends.
7. No chemistry or attraction to the guy. - If ythey are not atracted to the guy, usually this relates to something superficial such as looks.l. I think # 6 is helpful here. Becoming friends with a guy that she (the women) is not attracted too gives her a chance to learn about his personality and how he handles problems and lives his life. Many times a chemistry will develop because the guy is a good guy and she'll see that/respect it and fall in love with him for who he is and vice versa.
I'd rather be with a good guy and so would many other women. We're out there, you probably won't meet us in the typical places where you'd expect. Keep your eyes open. Good luck.
2006-10-05 10:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by pcgirl2006 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I dated a bad guy it was his motorcycle and his attitude and his lack of intrest in other people and their feeling.He was jsut so interesting to watch and hang with, everytime was different and got better physically and mentally. I never thought of his as a long term and that is why it helped. I did start to like him a lot but that was because he was so cool. But my boyfriend now is a bad boy on the outside (i dont care personality, loves fast cars and racing etc.) but a good guy on the inside (really treating me good and loving everything about me) and that is the kinda guy I have always wanted
2006-10-05 10:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by ask me again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad guy=adventure,thrills, and a trip out every month to see them in prison ! In the long run, they'll always be losers and the girl does wake up eventually. Hang in there,nice guys always win...just don't be a push-over
2006-10-05 11:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Animalism.
2006-10-05 10:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are attracted to bad guys....but when they get to really know those guys, they regret their choice...We like the bad things, the unallowed things, the risks....a good guy is not interesting....until yu get to know him....But a girl doen's get to know a good guy because she won't even look at him...Our bad choice (girls I mean, I am a girl, I know what I am saying) =))....
2006-10-05 11:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by ota marmota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww who dates a nice boy (no affence) but i think nice boys have no flaver there just to nice and that can get really annoying in a reallation ship. I would start being a bad boy
2006-10-05 10:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by breannafae h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Becuz we like to be man handled! We like to be spanked and hit and stuff like dat we dont like soft man all the time! Sometimez itz kool but not al the time Man up! Just be alil bit hard!
2006-10-05 10:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They love to date them for the excitement, but are disappointed when they turn out to be lousy husbands and fathers.
2006-10-05 10:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by sselfcoug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are dull
2006-10-05 10:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They have low self esteem and think that they dont deserve to be treated nice.
2006-10-05 10:55:21 · answer #11 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋