..do I sometimes feel unattractive? How can this be so? Why am I not outspoken and overly confident like the rest of the attractive girls out there??!!!! How cna I boost my confidence??
2006-10-05 03:46:39 · 7 answers · asked by Joanne a 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You don't need to be outspoken to be beautiful. And beauty is not only on the outside, in comes from within. Maybe try not to think so much about what you look like and what other so called beautiful girls are doing and saying and do what makes you happy. When you are truly happy with yourself and your life, I belive that beauty that you know is inside of you will shine.
So stop focusing on others and take care of your spirit !
2006-10-05 04:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by TeQuiLaSuNriSe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to feel attractive, beutiful, feel confident and smart, there is a lot to be done and it cant be expected to happen overnight. since a lot of reward will come out of having self-confidence a lot of work is involved, too. the first thing is to think and feel you are beautiful , as you are, do a make over, have a change of wardrobe of i need one. you dont need a new clothihes if that is too expensive, but some change of styles and some coordination. that is be creative with pairing, and blending colors. Good posture is important too. Proper nutrition, exercise, make up. Well those are just the external part. The internal part is more important. Becoz what lies within will naturally ome out by itself. in order to look smart, you have to be smart inside. Read a lot, be knowledgeable. There are lots of girls who look beautiful but suddnly becomes a bore and dull becoz of some stupid remark or foolish facial expressions. Practicing in front of the mirror is important too. Emit a warm, sincere and charming smile. If you have some liabilities, compensate with some talents and wit. Be trendy but not too wild. Be reserved but not bashful. think, feel and dress beautiful. And gradually will emerge an image that came of from the pages of Vogue, Glamour, Cosmo and Stylish. Conratulations, Ms. Beautiful
2006-10-05 11:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by amanda_leigh002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without more information it is hard to figure out why you feel unattractive. But, when i have to do things that I dont think I can do I rely on this statement. "Fake it til you make it." Basically act as if you are attractive and confident (putting up a good front). Eventually you will begin to believe it.
Word of caution, don't go overboard with the acting.
2006-10-05 23:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by En1gma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
outspoken and over confidence is not a good trait, not even for attractive girls.
Why do you feel unatractive? Because you're putting emphasis in the wrong place and hanging around the people who won't do you any good. And, because you're comparing yourself to them.
How can you boost your confidence? By accomplishments, doing things for yourself and for other people.
2006-10-05 11:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should start by accepting yourself as who you are and
dont let others define your behavior, I think you are maybe
caring too much about what others might think, but the
truth is, you should do always try to talk openly to others
and be nice, because in the end, everyone likes a nice
person, just always have in mind that you are beautiful
and others will see it, also, not everyone will be attracted
to you physically they will see your friendly ways and they
will like you. Once that happens you will see that you
will feel much better about yourself. Good luck!!!
2006-10-05 10:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by agentemm90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just count your own blessings and live for yourself. your dear parents and your family. You are beautiful if you think you are
2006-10-05 10:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Adsense$Profits? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at yourself in the mirror
you are hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-05 10:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋