I really really miss my ex bf but i'm not sure I want to be back with him in a relationship. I don't know what I want but just the thought of him being with someone else or doing the things he did with me with anyone else makes me sad and makes me want to just be with him even more. We broke up about a month ago cuz i couldn't take the constant arguing and i'm not sure if i want him to be mine again cuz i felt as if things would never change...i know i sound selfish but what can i do to get over my feelings for him? Lately i've been thinking about him alot and I wanna work it out but i just don't know :(
2006-10-05 03:41:55 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Thang 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby, wake up and spell the coffee. It is obvious that if you left him because of the constant agueing that he was no good for you especially if he was not willing to change. Don't be selfish and just let him go by trying to get him out of your mind and your heart. If he really wanted you he would be willing to change. Follow your heart, don't except less if you don't have too. I wouldn't. life and relationships in general is hard especially when feelings are involved, but you have to do the right thing for yourself and say to yourself...Do I really want someone who constantly argues all the time? Can we get along? When you answer those questions then you will know for yourself what you should do. Meanwhile if you just want him back and got to have him find out if yall can talk and work out the problems that you have or work out the things that are causing problems for you. If he is willing and you... then it's worth a try! However do it for the right reasons and not the wrong!
2006-10-05 03:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by my_beautifulbrown_eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first love. She did the same. She left me. I was naive. But I was hurt that she left me. Almost 4 years later, we're in touch, we keep in touch, and now she wants me back. I will not get back although I will always love her. Why? Cuz she left me. I'm a capricorn. She's Aries.
Anyway, if you broke up recently then just support him as a friend. Don't ever say "friend". It'll just piss him off. Just be there for him until his whining and crying dies down. It's easier if you date someone right now. He will move on. If he doesn't, then something's wrong with him and you shouldn't be with a guy who can't move on. He needs to change his attitude if he has to stay wit you but if he's not willing to do that, then you move on.
Got it?
Good girl. All the best. You know what you have to do.
Raf
2006-10-05 11:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u guys broke up b/c of arguing call him back, and see if u guys want to get back together, but try to solve things b/4 arguing. (it takes 2 to argue) be the bigger person. If ur still confused, than just dont go out with him, its hard but its a normal feeling and u will get over it in time. Good luck and think b/4 u act.
2006-10-05 10:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend you broke up for a reason , trust me you are not the only woman out there that has pain after a break up, it'll take time to get over it, so the the best thing for you to do is get over and find someone for you....... never backtrack .....keep moving.
2006-10-05 10:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by alh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love him but you don't get along. Sounds like you both need to learn how to share your thoughts and feelings appropriately and just learn to accept each other.
But of course if you have to work hard at accepting each other, perhaps you don't really love the person as much as you feel you do. Something to think about.
2006-10-05 11:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, and miss him and want to be with him, tell him.. If you love and want him back, and know its not going to work out, .then get over him and move on.. It's easier to move on then try it again and feel stupid for going into it again, knowing it would end up badly.
2006-10-05 10:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you strongly believe that things will never change then dont be with him. Try to move on to a better relationship.
2006-10-05 10:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by bthompsonusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just you being selfish and greedy " cant have your cake and eat it to" or "You always want what you cant have" both are famous quotes to describe you right now. move on and dont worry about what hes doing because its none of you business focus on your own life.
2006-10-05 10:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by bigmj75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet some one else ,dont jump in to anything just keep your mind occupied.
2006-10-05 11:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by forlife_918 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart that's all you have to do and your heart will point you in the right direction.
2006-10-05 10:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋