he has a girlfriend and got mad when i told him my cuzn is hookn me up wit someone from her school he called me phony one time after we broke up i asked him wat r we he said friends i think he meant friends wit benefits he talk 2 me bout how im sexy and all that other stuff but he also claim he love his girlfriend thats y we broke bcause he said he like me but cant like me how he want 2 bcause he is n love wit her....... HELP!!! freakn out here!!!
2006-10-05 03:30:01 · 20 answers · asked by creecree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is it with ex's, right? they selfish as what. But Its ur ex for a reason, If he's acting this way then dont talk to him. Dont pick up his phone calls, and who is he anyways to tell u who u can or cannot date, And if he has a girl why cant u have a boyfriend. I say cut the friendship, but then again what kinda friendship is that. Dont bother with him, u can do better. With friends like that who needs enemies.
2006-10-05 03:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off all contact with him, and ignore him, you need to do what is right for you, and hopefully he will realize he has to do what is right for him, (if he is in love with this other girl you shouldn't be an issue).
Oh... stay in school because there is no such thing as a phony, and cuzn, isn't a word.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
2006-10-05 10:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Teclis98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in love, moved on, and though he still has some feelings towards you, it's not what they may have used ot be. Best thing to do is move on with your life and go enjoy yourself. Date, do whatever pleases you........dont hold yourself back because of someone who is just attempting to keep you sitting on the side in case something goes wrong with his current gf. If you still want to be friends, that's fine, but for NOW, leave him alone......and maybe sometime a few months down the road....you dont have to give him the cold-shoulder so often.
2006-10-05 10:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hook up with that guy that your cuzn suggests and just move on. Don't give your ex that much more attention---just treat him as an aquaintance and nothing more. He decided that he didn't want to move on from his ex, or just treat you with any kind of respect...people can if they want to, even if they were heart broken. Its not that difficult. He is just being lazy and not wanting to put anything in a relationship...you need someone more thoughtful than that.
2006-10-05 10:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this guy a collector. Collect a woman here a woman there. Is this what you want in a bf or just a friend? I didn't think so tell him you don't want to be his friend or his lover and he can just get lost and you won't care. Start seeing other guys as soon as possible and leave this loser in the dust.
2006-10-05 10:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what will make u happy because in the long run how u feel is the most important. Just remember once a dog always a dog!!
2006-10-05 10:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's emotionally unavailable to you and in order for him to choose you need to distance yourself from him and stop calling him and stop going anywhere that makes him see you and this will give him the time and space he needs to sort out his feelings for you and her but this will make him call you constantly and this will make him jealous because he is gonna think you are with someone else and it will have thinking about you all the time and this will have him trying to get you back but you should distance yourself from because this situation isn't good for any of the parties involved but you have to make the decision to leave him alone are you ready to put your happiness first before his but you have to decide this before anything else and when you are ready to make this move then you are going to be happy
2006-10-05 10:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk to him anymore. He is still controlling you. Dont allow that anymore. Go out with your cousins friend and have a great time. You deserve to be with someone who will be nice to you. Good luck, take care
2006-10-05 10:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you buy a car when people are handing out porshes for free???????!!!!!!
Two girls are better than one. and he does'nt even have to wait out anyone's menstraul cycle!!!
He's a skank and you actually stress him, unbelievable!!! Learn to move on girl. Because your worth it, don't you think????
2006-10-05 10:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by GOT MILK? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell him to get his act together or hit the road.
2006-10-05 10:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋