see we dont stay by each other and hes a thug so its hard to trust him ever other day a new girl is calling talking about you go with my man and i tried and every time i ask who this girl he play dum
so im tired should i leave him or try to work it out
2006-10-05 03:25:19 · 29 answers · asked by chocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie you all ready know what you need to do, you're just looking for the approval of other people to reassure you that what you're heart is telling you is right. You know you're worth so much more than that and deserve so much better. Especially since he's being so disrespectful to you then playing dumb isnt helping out much either. Don't sit there and subject yourself to that mistreatment. You can well enough find another man who will be willing to respect you and treat you the way a woman should be treated. If you continue on with this relationship it will only end in one thing, and that one thing being nothing more than drama, drama, and more drama. If he's doing this to you now, there's no telling what else he will do to you later on down the road when your feelings become stronger for him. Honestly I'm speaking from experience I've been there done that and you deserve better.
2006-10-05 03:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by bebechinadoll_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the tie the binds in a relationship. If you ain't got trust, you don't have nothing. Not even love can replace trust. Honey, you got to ask yourself is it really worth working out? For some reason I attract thugs but you can't say because he's one that they are all the same. Wether he goes on a 9-5 or on the corner a man is bound to cheat. But if the girls are calling you and he is "pretending" not to know, he's BS'n you honey. How can all these girls just point him out of all these men and tell you what is going on with him if he isn't messing around.. I would shake him off, and let it go. Don't even go off on him, there's no need. Just let him be with the world on his own and let him catch an STD if he wanna be that loose.
2006-10-05 10:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. You should be able to answer this one your self.
You don't trust him, sooooooooooo there is obviously no point in sticking around. And please just remember the whole I love him, I cant leave him thing should be cleared from your head. Reason at the end of the day he will either get you in to serious trouble or break you heart in to millions of thousands of pieces. You need to have someone in your life that is going to bring yours standards up not lower them. You should be able to feel comfortable with him going with a bunch a mates and know that he is with you and at the end of the night he goes home thinking only about you. Stop this before it is too late
2006-10-05 10:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl it ain't nothing wrong with a thug cause some out there want them a gul they can trust and cant tell the things they need to here. But with the females that keep call tell them that they can have your left overs and tell them to get like you. But talk to him and if he keeps playing dum leave him. And tell the H*** to stop playing on the phone.
2006-10-05 10:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Alayshia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well leave him because it looks likes he not going to do right. So let him go because you can do better than him. One day he will realize that he had a good thing but now its gone. You don't have time for this life is to young gurl move on wish you best luck.
2006-10-05 10:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by janessa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babygirl leave from the sounds of it there's nothing to work out, he is playing you, and since he is a thug, he is dealing with rat chics, because those are the only ones that's gonna call you talkin ignorant **** like that.
get rid, and get gone
2006-10-05 10:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave, you deserve better. Leave though thugs alone...
Get a real man that will trust you with respect.
2006-10-05 10:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it already " he is a thug". The way i see it if you love he other wome must love him too. If you dont trust him leave.
2006-10-05 10:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by bthompsonusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try some subtle revenge then leave him - you willnever be able totrust him and thats bad for your self esteem
tell the girls he is with his boyfriend!
and maybe get a medical to make sure he didnt give you something
2006-10-05 10:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by miz Destiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you need confirmation from us. Because if you weren't already thinking of leaving, you wouldn't have asked this question. You need to leave him sweetie. You don't have to put up with this.
2006-10-05 10:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋