I am picking up the rest of my stuff from my ex girlfriend tonight but i am still in love with her. Do i tell her or not? we have been apart for 3 weeks
2006-10-05 03:17:41 · 25 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her but in a way that is not too needy!
there is nothing worse than a desperate man on your door step and at the same time, there is nothing better than kicking someone when they are down - down let this opportunity arise!
If you do, then she will have a short burst of exhilaration, tell her friends how ace she is, and then even if she wanted to get back with you, she wouldnt, because then she would look bad infront of her friends!
Collect your stuff, find an item that means a lot to both of you. Ask her what you should do with it. Try to jog some memories, even some buried feelings.
If this doesnt work then it obviously not meant to be. If that is the case, try and get something decent from hers and sell it on ebay - you may aswel as get something out of it!
2006-10-05 03:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by noggintrude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a lot of things ie. how long you were together, why you broke up etc. In my opinion I wudn't - if your picking up the rest of your things it's sort've finalising everything. On the other hand you can always tell her that you love her an will be there for her as a friend, again dependin on the situation, Good luck on watever you decide!
2006-10-05 03:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Haylz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first things first she must have feelings 4 u in what way i cant say as i dont know you but i would let her know and tell her i love her thats what she is waiting to hear so i wish u luck all the best ps being honest is the best thing if u dont tell her u maynever c or hear from her again telling her u love her and meaning it could be the way you both stay togather i hope so.
2006-10-05 03:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by dgriffin_deang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell her , three weeks is not long to be apart , maybe youve both needed some space .If you love her , do not be afraid to say so , if you dont you may regret it . If she cannot love you back then you must accept that it is over , but try to keep your friendship if possible .
good luck
2006-10-05 03:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her if you want ... how she reacts depends on the circumstances in which you broke up. Was it your fault or hers? Was another guy/girl involved? Does she still feel the same about you?
If you still feel strongly enough for her, sit down with her and talk about it ... maybe she will want to make another go of things, maybe she won't.
2006-10-05 03:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on who did the breaking up and why - I cant see it hurting - maybe shes realised too how much she misses you over the 3 weeks and might be up for trying again. Hope things work out for you two xx
2006-10-05 03:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say for you to tell her how you are feeling, but respect her wishes and still do as she says. Since you didn't give additional information as to why you've been apart for three weeks it could be difficult to give more advice. Listen to your heart but also listen to what she is saying to you.
2006-10-05 03:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by preshus316 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you tell her maybe yall could get back 2gether if she feels the same way too... but it all depends on why yall broke up in the first place.... care to share?
2006-10-05 03:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Misheee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her tell her how you feel. It's worth a try she might feel the same way. If she don't then move on.
2006-10-05 03:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on the reason for your breakup, whether you think there is a chance that she still likes you, and whether you really want her back. but what harm can telling her do? you have already broken up. it can only get better
2006-10-05 03:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋