I have a partner. He is 26, and he gets off after about 5 or 10 minutes. I, on the other hand, need a bit longer. I know all men are different, but is that usual? And, this happens every time. I tell him it's no big deal, because, I think it may be stress--he's trying too hard to do a good job and I do not want to put anymore pressure on him or hurt his feelings. Can you give me any more information or advice? Also, I am not sure if this maybe affects anything, but he has an extreme curve in his penis to the right side...could that have anything to do with it?
2006-10-05 02:44:50 · 26 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always thought 5-10 minutes was normal.
2006-10-05 02:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 00:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 to 10 minutes of intercourse isn't premature ejaculation. Premature is when it happens before or immediately when intercourse starts. I think 5 to 10 minutes is normal for alot of guys.
If you want him to last longer have him wear a condom (if he doesn't already) that will desensitize him a bit. You could also have him masturbate before intercourse to get it out of his system.
A little curviture in the penis is normal. Some people have more of a curve than others but it's nothing to worry about.
2006-10-05 02:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by taskr36 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-14 18:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-01-16 02:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 to 10 minutes is actually longer than average...! Average is like 3 to 5, at least that is what I read a few years ago.
I find it hard to believe that after 5 to 10 minutes of him going at you, you don't hit any orgasm..Not to sound rude or anything but did you think of taking a look at yourself??? Are you really in love with him?
My wife and I almost always reach peak at the exact same time, no matter how long it takes me to bust my nut. Some times it's fast some times is long.
Personally I find the more often we have sex, the more de-sensitized I get and the longer I can go. We are trying to have a baby so we are doing it like rabbits, after like two days, she can give me a handjob for like 1 hour and I don't reach any climax (no matter how really really good that feels)...
I say have more sex, twice a day if you have to..!
UPDATE:
Extreme curves are not from masturbation you retard....
2006-10-05 02:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by KinfOfPly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi. The shape of his penis has nothing to do with it. He just has a problem with hyper sensitivity. It is true for a certain number of guys and the good news is it can be helped with some simple techniques. First, educate yourself about these techniques (for example, squeezing the base of the shaft of his penis will slow the response reaction for ejaculation). Get the info then try it out on him. That may help you both ease into a subject that may be embarrassing for him. On the average, male-female intercourse lasts about 15 to 20 minutes, so you are not too far off.
2006-10-05 02:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imen are microwaves women are croc pots
Dont get hung up on him comming to quickly the first time around . Do get caught up on him pleaseing you . Instead concentrate on his shortening his refractory period .(Reload time)
n conjunction with oral and other techniques
The answer maybe not trying to make the first orgasm he has take a long time to achieve but rather the opposiste and working on shorter refractory periods . (reload time)
Try pizza/dvd/beer sex . have him go down on you before he makes love to you . Then have some cold pizza and beer and watch a dvd . Play with him bit repeat process.
Try not bee pollen but flower pollen products
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If he has a vaectomy a lot of men can come but keep going without a condom but you have to be mongamous
2006-10-05 03:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look up the average lasting time for a male, they say it's only about 2 and a half minutes. So don't complain. If it's a really big deal though, I heard some antidepressants work well. And there is a new drug that hasn't made it to the US from Europe called Dapoxetine, there's a story on Yahoo Health -> Sexual Health about it.
2006-10-05 02:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by jbrowning001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have been reading up on this: They have a drug that is suppose to be out in 2007 ( just a few months to go ) They say that cock rings help some but they don't. Viagra will do some help but not a lot since it is not made for that. Lots of foreplay and pull out the toys. Good luck and your not alone for having a partner with this problem.
2006-10-05 02:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow thats longer than my man, lol, it dosent bother me though.
Yeah i hear what your saying about needing more time.
Does he go down on you b4 sex, so you can get off?
All guys are different though, so time is a hard thing to determine.
Does the curve that he has bother or hurt you?
i dont know if that would affect him c u m m i n g quicker, but i wouldnt imagine that it would be comfortable for u.
HAve plenty of fore play previous to penetration, so whatever does it for you, start that b4 initial sex.
2006-10-05 02:52:11 · answer #11 · answered by jordancassandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋