I dont want to have a marriage that fails. or to have kids and then divorce. I'm a single 26 year old guy , with no girlfriend and the possibility of it is almost non existant now since i'm a quiet guy and havne't tried dating. But i do think about marriage, even as impossible as it sounds. How do you prepare, what can you do, what kind of choices in partner can you make to make sure that it won't fail. My sister rushed into marriage after just a few months of having this boyfriend and the guy is mean and controllng, things are going bad for them. I don't want that. any tips?
2006-10-05 02:43:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man, i can only try my best to help u... since i rushed into my relationship wit my ex fiance.. and things turne dout bad, i tried my best to prepare for marriage, but we never even got there...
i never even started datin until 19, wit my ex fiance that is.. she was my first everything
biggest mistake was rushin, especially wit my first love, especially when she was 2 years younger and still a teen fun girl
i dont wanna have a failed marriage too..
the true way to prepare is to have relationships wit girls, to experience other girls, just date them, but dont do anything serious wit them.. only do serious things if u believe they are the ONE... but u gotta really believe it, watch out for the bad signs
but mainly, become friends wit lots of girls, first thing is u'll need guy friends that can take u out and hook u up alot, just really see all the kind of different girls out there, i'm about to myself, i use to be quiet like u, i still am at first until my friends and myself put me out there and, things changed forever
2006-10-05 02:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Zi-Shu 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One of my buddy's buddy received married to a Lawyer few days again. He is so joyful with the wedding. He mentioned he not ever anticipated her to be so ingenious, romantic and naughty ! She could also be well in making ready recipes, sings good , first-rate in pictures. You have a tendency to believe many Lawyers have an overly prime detail of creativity and are blessed with multifaceted ability units. I trust this, however I have no idea why must I agree. May be I don't have anything to do for a while in these days and these days is the day of Sun reaches at the Equaator of this side of earth. .
2016-08-29 07:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are 26 years old and are not dating. How can you begin to know what you want or are looking for, if you're not looking? Go out, stop being so quiet, open your mouth and start dating!!! Time is ticking. How about trying some online dating sites. You can establish some communication via e-mail and eventually move to the telephone once you feel comfortable with that person. Good luck!!!
2006-10-05 02:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by Charlies_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am married and I can tell you for a fact that the success of marriage depends on both partners. It's complicated. You and your partner must have set of principles and abide by them. Example: No extramarital affair, always learn to forgive each other, dont do what will hurt your partner, aim high in life and work towards it, love your children and fear God.
In choosing a right partner, you have to find out how the lady relates with her siblings and parents. If her siblings like her then it implies she has an enduring relations with them. If her parents are on good relations with her then it means she is respectful and submissive to authority. Find out her future plans. Is she aiming high? You must have a wife who will support you financially that is why it is important to know her future plans. Has she been oversexed? If she has had multiple sexual partners then it means she has lots of sexual experience. If you have not had comparable sexual experience then I am afraid she may find you boring.
2006-10-05 03:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to do some special things... just be ready to care about and understand other person...
good luck! :)
p.s. i was thinking about your question, and now i have one more answer. :) at first you don't need to think about HOW to get married. but it is a really good idea to find what you are looking for and WHY do you want to get married. just imagine, that you have already got married. after that try to answer to yourself what you really wait from this action, what is going to change after you get married. if you understand this you understand what kind of partner you really need and how you could find her...i'm used to repeat these words to myself when i'm thinking about how to get married... :)
(by the way, i'm a single and 26) year old too :) )
2006-10-05 03:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by unreal_comet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, u should go out for dating or join some dating service on net then only u will know which type of patner u r looking for. Or ask ur elders about it or those who r married and living happily becoz they r experienced one's and i'm sure that they will help u out.
All the best. :-))
2006-10-05 02:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by justin1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding the right person is the hardest thing. Someone you can relate to and enjoy being with. Someone you can compromise with. It's tuff but they say their out there somewhere. I'm 37 single and still looking. Good luck!
2006-10-05 02:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dorky as it sound, first you gotta love and respect yourself. Then you date girls with whom you share mutual respect. Without the respect you can never have real friends, lovers, mates. Never date seriously a girl who has a little flaw you think you can fix. You will never change anything about anyone else. And, please, never try to change yourself into something you think someone else wants! I'm sure you are gonna do great. And raise wonderful children.
2006-10-05 02:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello..
2006-10-05 02:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋