I have a question for any men willing to answer. When I ask this I am refering to a RELATIONSHIP only (not marriage). If you are in a relationship (with sex and dating involved) and you DO love the woman... do you think about her all the time??? I know when a woman loves a man (speaking for myself) that the man stays on her mind almost all the time. So I am wondering does the woman stay on the mans mind all day/most of the time??? Of course I am asking this ONLY if you TRUELY love the woman, not just some fling. Thanks for any answers.
2006-10-05 02:41:47 · 12 answers · asked by BBHEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my humble opinion if you truly deeply love anyone, man, women or child, they should consume much of your thought.
2006-10-05 02:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Peppino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most of the time... I think about by girlfiend all the time but that doesnt' really help anything to sit and daydream about romance. romance doesn't pay the bills or put food on the table. The reason why men do half the things they do is because of a woman or family. I work extra hard so I can take my baby out and treat her like a queen, build on the future & so on. So its hard to keep her on my mind when there other factors involved. But I do what I do for her. And thats good enough as far as Im concerned. You said MEN, not boys so I am talking from a MANs perspective. A boys erspective with less responsibility I would say yes. I think about her all the time. because I don't have anything else to think about or something similar to Dens' comments. hope that helps
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2006-10-05 10:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope,we think about football and what is for dinner.
If you want to please him versus understand him,invite him to a steak and potato dinner that you cooked.
If you would like to get a man who is full of tender emotions,the gay bars are full of them.
Have ESPN on the TV and please try to keep quiet for at least an hour.
Once you have him fed and tamed,he is yours baby.
Keep it as close to 30 minutes with the deep talk,then let him get back to the basketball scores.
Once he is ready to leave he will think that he has found a goddess.
Timing is everything,and you may get another 15 minutes of serious talk out of him.
If you call him the next day remember this,keep it short.Put yourself on the clock and you will shine the sun in his eyes.
A man feels as if a woman is after him if they start the deep part of talking and such right off the bat.
Either that or he will think that you are just one more yakkity-yak.
This is very honest assessment.
If you want sex then that is your business.
Just remember,he will never buy the cow when he can get the milk for free.
When you wonder why he is the way that he is,check your shorts.You have an inny,he has an outy and it is a lot more than just a surface thing.
It goes to that heart that you are after.
Here is another jewel of wisdom,if he likes football or whatever,go to a game with him.He is sure to enjoy it and you may find that you do as well.
Lay down a little of yourself and pick up a little of him.If he is worth a dime then he will do the same.
2006-10-05 09:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Den 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I am with my girl I couldn't be happier. I say to myself there is nothing on earth that could improve what we have. Even if a hotter, flashier girl walks by, I may look at her but think what I have now is the best I could ever need.
But....
When I am not around her I still think about her a lot, but men are simple. If we are out and about w/o our woman and we see another hottie, we day dream 'what if?' and for a second or two we imagine what it would be like with a different woman. How secure a guy is with himself dictates how far he will persue someone else when he is not with his girl.
2006-10-05 09:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case I feel comfortable having sex with someone in a relationship then having multiple partners. It is because she will get to know what you like and vice verse. I think it depends on how long sex last. If it last between 1-5 mins, he's just think about getting it. If it last about 5-10 mins or longer then i think its OK to think that he loves you. The reason why is that if he loves you, he will put in the effort and time to please you, making you feel very comfortable in every way.
As far as you asking if guys think about their partner all the time. Is that referring to during sex? I guess you can use the same think i have stated above. If the sex last about 1-5 mins he's think about getting and that's it. If it goes on for about 5-10 or longer, it means he's has is mind set on pleasing you.
2006-10-05 09:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by vincent21k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in love with a person more than likely youll think about them often threw out the day so yea she does stay on our mind maybe because we know that someone loves us and we think of that person very often
2006-10-05 09:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Black Mafia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing but waste of time. Its as hard to find a gul who loves you by heart as to find a three horned rinocerous. And if you call sex as Love then I am sorry
2006-10-05 09:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a soldier that is deployed but yes i still think about my sweet beautifull girl back home its not every min. but evry time that im not doing something i thing about how much i would love spending the time i have with her telling her that i love her and miss her
2006-10-05 09:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by leo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to, and not just in a sexual manner, but my significant has gone to great lengths to make herself as unappealing as possible
2006-10-05 09:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i seem to be lost without them, sort of like we are connected as one.
2006-10-05 09:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Michael J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋