Me and my ex just broke up :(
3 weeks later I found out that she's startin to like a co-worker of ours, he a teacher that's 8 years older than her
i think that's sick
this of course breaks me down
Everyday she grows closer to him
I know that this guy is no good for her
How can I get in between them? Of course i want her back, but not soon... I wanna show her that I'm a newer improved guy, and also at the same time the guy she fell in love wit before, but i dont wanna have anyone mad at me, she hasn't been talkin to me much since she doesnt feel to comfortable wit me, but yet i'm still her friend, i'll always and have been there for her more than this bum has, I can only think that i should try to rebuild a better friendship wit my ex to get closer to her once again before it's too late
2006-10-05 02:36:59 · 8 answers · asked by Zi-Shu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and my ex fiance just broke up :(
we've been through sooo many things together, she was my first EVERYTHING
of course it's very hard to let her go
i'm doin things myself right now to move up, financially
3 weeks later I found out that she's startin to like a co-worker of ours, he a teacher that's 8 years older than her
i think that's sick
this of course breaks me down
Everyday she grows closer to him
I know that this guy is no good for her
How can I get in between them? Of course i want her back, but not soon... I wanna show her that I'm a newer improved guy, and also at the same time the guy she fell in love wit before, but i dont wanna have anyone mad at me, she hasn't been talkin to me much since she doesnt feel to comfortable wit me, but yet i'm still her friend, i'll always and have been there for her more than this bum has, I can only think that i should try to rebuild a better friendship wit my ex to get closer to her once again before it's too late
2006-10-05 02:52:34 · update #1
she's my fiance by the way... my first EVERYTHING...
we've been through sooo much together..
she just thought we weren't right together and broke up..
she's 19, in her fun teen years, i guess not commited yet..
2006-10-05 02:54:15 · update #2
You are heading down the psychotic path, back off before its too late. Get your tears out, curse her name but don't make it some crazy mission to win her back if she has moved on.
2006-10-05 02:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by simianfever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Stay out. You can't force someone to do something or think a certain way or feel a certain way. Let her be. Let her make that mistake and later, she'll realize that you loved her and will come back. Go on with your life. Don't talk/call her. I know it's hard but pretend that you don't care. Let her mess up and see what she's done.
2006-10-05 09:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her and move on. I would get a different job too. I would'nt want to deal with that daily. Or maybe do something to get her fired.
2006-10-05 09:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by chrisbode1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in an ex situation---leave it alone; if the time comes that she changes her mind, you will probably know. you aren't responsible for her...move on with your life
2006-10-05 09:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason she is your "ex". Get a life. Move on.
2006-10-05 09:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by 2smart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her your feelings..... let her know as a friend she could do alot better.... have you thought about she maybe trying to get you to notice her more going out with this guy.....
2006-10-05 09:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have any pride?
Stay away from your ex. IT'S OVER! Get a life dude.
2006-10-05 09:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by moonsister_98 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well leave them alone and find some one else
2006-10-05 09:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Rick R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋