my boyfiend is really good in bed and always makes sure i come first but once he comes thats it no cuddling or conversation he just turns over and gos to sleep i hate this and feel very unwanted when he does this hes says its just the way he is and it doesnt mean anything just that hes tired and most men are like this..wats your thinking is is just a girl thing that we like the cuddling and talking afterwards?
2006-10-05 02:20:52 · 17 answers · asked by keevy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is really tired & you shouldn't get offended, it has nothing to do with his affection for you, more of a biological thing really, cheer up girl!
2006-10-05 02:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am one of the lucky ones that get the cuddling and all after wards...But there really is a hormone that is released during sex that makes you tired..if he does not hold you curl up behind him and cuddle him it does go both ways ..and even if he is a sleep and does not know you are doing it you do and that to can do wonders on how you feel...I think it is a girl thing ... all touchy and feely...I think we are programmed like this because most women thing if the do not get the cuddle after wards that they are just being used
2006-10-05 02:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by thunder_rainclouds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is a girl thing, but i have had both, men that like to be close and my present boyfriend who does not.What else is their to talk about, talk before sex and kiss goodnight and call it a day.
Or find a different man.!!!Good luck I feel for you cause i have been there and it made me feel awful. Ask yourself how many more times do you want to feel unwanted? Get your needs met by any means necessary!
2006-10-05 02:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by Nicnak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tiredness I don’t believe but why I want to keep close my eyes and quit myself is to enjoy the feelings I had in the course. I always replay all the feelings I had in the pu-ssy and don’t want to distract that sensation by talking. But I always lie on top of her for about 5 minutes after ejaculation and do lot of play on her while talking. Most of the time I got erection during that play and start working again. So my GF enjoy that.
2006-10-05 02:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not reschedule the time you make love so that he won't have to fall asleep afterwards. If that doesn't help, then try chatting to him (while sitting up) about how good he was bla bla to keep the conversation flowing. If you have a t.v., it would work wonders or you could play video games.If he dozes, give him a blow to wake him up. Try this.
2006-10-05 02:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A truely good man will always cuddle and talk afterward - It is part of making the woman feel important. I feel that if a guy just rolls over - he is not treating his lady properly. To the guy that rolls over - it is a wham, bam, thank you ma'am!!!!!
2006-10-05 02:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's a girl thing. Once guys ***, they're done and want to sleep. It takes a lot out of them. Try doing it before bedtime, then maybe lay together and watch TV. That's what my man likes to do and he holds me for a bit too. We both get what we want that way. Try it.
2006-10-05 02:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm not a big fan of talking after sex but i do like to cuddle. he is right some guys are like that. however there are some how do and i like those. so tell your boyfriend to stop being such a prick and hug you once in a while after sex. it won't kill him you know to show he cares for you in other was than sex.
good luck
2006-10-05 02:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Julz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a maloe thing. alot of them are like, but most will cuddle up to you - even if they are tired and wnat to sleep they can cuddle up and do it! maybe he is not very affectionat like that, next time say to him can we have a cuddle before you go to sleep, it's the least he can do!
2006-10-05 02:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuddling and talking afterwards.....definately a girl thing
2006-10-05 02:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by GJDugdale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋