i have been chasing this girl for 2months now.though she told me she has a boyfriend but i did not bother. i kept buying her gifts and showing her love.i took her out on the day of her birthday, we had great time together.latter she started advicing me that next time i should not just fall in love with a girl just like that.she finally told me she has someone she is really in love with. she said she likes me very much and that she has even told her friends that how she likes me.and also that she can never forget me in her life.when i asked her if we are still going to see. she said yes. infact she was the one that first ask., if i think i will not see my angel again.because i call her angel. i really love this girl. i feel for her very much.what will i do now? moreso we have been going out on several date.
2006-10-05 01:59:40 · 19 answers · asked by samuel B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im sorry to hear of this but as you say your self she likes you not at 1 time as she said she loves you , this is hard i know as iv been in this situation when i was younger its all part of life and you will get over it you just have to walk away and get on with your life there is no easier answer for you, she seems like a nice girl who just cant tell you she does not want to be with you as she does not want to hurt you go out with friends and meet some 1 else who can love you back as this girl cant her heart belongs somewere else
2006-10-05 02:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by vicky s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, live for the moment..that moment is past history. Don't annoy her if you have any thought at all for her. She let you down with dignity, accept it and move on. Get yourself a book called Leaving yesterday behind. Believe me, I have the tee shirt and know how you feel right now. It is tough, but who says life is easy.Keep looking forward, and you will find what you both need and want, you just haven't done that yet or it would have happened.
2006-10-05 02:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by brian l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to face the fact that you like her more than she likes you. She's probably been trying not to hurt your feelings. Probably she was flattered by all your attention which is why she went out with you at all.
Sometimes in your life you feel you love someone, but they don't feel the same about you, and there's nothing you can do about it. You have to face that fact - it happens to most of us sometime. Put it down to experience - say it was nice while it lasted, but it's over now. When you meet someone who feels the same about you as you do about her you will know that it's right.
2006-10-05 02:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by crosbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat my husband before we got married were best friends we met at middle school and he always loved me but i always had boyfriends and dated people and he told me he couldn't stop thinking of me.and he couldn't be with anyone. After 7yrs i wasn't happy with my relationship and i couldn't stop thinking of my now husband. I was blind about how much he loved me and if i didn't tell him how i felt and he never gave up on me we wouldn't be together now. Maybe shes blind and don't give up. it is possible it happened for us. Good luck
2006-10-05 02:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I would be leery of her if she claims she loves this other guy, while leading you on.
If a girl was as nice to you as you are to your angel, wouldn't you keep her around even if you didn't want to get serious with her?
You seem sincere so I would tell you to wait.
Nice people are a rarity.
The right girl will find you
2006-10-05 02:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok she's confused, and she's confusing you. You can't help how you feel, but you need to let her go, just stop seeing her, that should not be too hard. She not holding a gun to your head ans making you go out with her, it's just you giving into your desires and she is letting you.
Do yourself and her a favour drop her, this will end badly for both of you if it continues.
2006-10-05 02:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Solitary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MayB you should try to get over her, so u you won't be in a trauma should in-case she gives u up cos she told you from the scratch,Try and operate with her on a platonic level,maybe destiny will have it's way,who knows?
2006-10-05 02:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this girl is playing you. She is doing what she can to get what she can. You already know that she has a boyfriend and that she loves him. Leave her alone. Find someone that will appreciate you for who you are and not for what you do. Take care.
2006-10-05 02:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's selfish and playing you. I bet if you stop buying her stuff and taking her out she'll lose interest. She's a player and you deserve better. She loves someone else, if she wanted you, she'd be with you!! Remember that and try to walk away. If it was meant to be, she'll come back to you, if not..then she was never yours. Good luck!!!
2006-10-05 02:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serves you right for trying to get in there with another blokes girlfriend.
I am glad you are feeling a lot of pain, you got what you deserved!
2006-10-05 03:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋