okay there's a girl who's very sweet to me and first i think that she's in love w/ me and i fell in love w/ her too! so this past few weeks,i planned to express my feelings to her but i didn't continue my plan coz i think that she doesn't feel the same way as i do now coz she's not talking to me for how many days and she's hanging out w/ other guys now not like in the past, the only guy she hangs out is me! what should i do?
2006-10-05 01:58:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her and if she likes you then awesome. If not it'll be her loss dude.
2006-10-05 02:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah, young luv. Think back...all the times she was sweet to you. Was it you talking to her, or you starting up the conversation/communication? If she was the one coming to you, then yeah - she may have been interested. If you were the one making all of the contact, it could mean she feels the pressure. The fact that she's avoiding you can mean a couple of things:
1. She's heard through the grapevine you're interested in her in "that way", and is avoiding you because she's not and doesn't want to hurt your feelings because she's "sweet".
2. She's heard through the grapevine you're interested in her in "that way", and is avoiding you because she may feel the same way and is shy and waiting for you to make the first move.
You'll never know unless you talk to her, bro. Keep it casual, keep it cool and talk to her - don't pressure, or you'll freak her out. I think once you both know what's going on for sure, you can take it to the next level - of romance or friendship.
2006-10-05 09:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Knoxie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me she is trying to make you jelous. Just go to her and tell her how you feel. Maybe if she has felt this way about you for a long time and your feelings took longer to develop she thinks you dont feel the same about her. So you really need to talk to her.
2006-10-05 09:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write well i think you should ask her out anyway it will all turn out ok in the end so what if she does say no it doesnt matter theirs plenty of other single girls out thereany way you are in for a good chance if you are the only guy she hangs out with arnt you it wont ruin your friendship with you as long as she really does value you as a friend GO FOR IT
2006-10-05 09:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Karen J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and go from there. She may just be tired of waiting on you to make a move and is trying to make you jealous!!! It you do not take the risk you will never know what could have been!!! Good luck!!!!
2006-10-05 09:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by housewives5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you close to her? Are you able to speak openly with her? If so, then just tell her how you feel.
If you don't speak openly and have recently shown her that you are interested and she's not, she may have gotten a little scared and decided to give you two some space.
2006-10-05 09:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she used you for something she needed and then kicked you to the curb. Let her go, she will probably do the same thing to someone else...
2006-10-05 09:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and have a talk with her before making your conlcusion about what you feel go a long with her.
2006-10-05 09:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luv that is not expressed is just like no luv.It doesn't achieve anything.
2006-10-05 09:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you missed "the window of oppertunity" shy guy!
2006-10-05 09:05:27 · answer #10 · answered by swashbuckler82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋