Would you lie about your age to date someone younger than you?
2006-10-05 01:45:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I would lie to a man that was 5 years younger than I about my age. At 38 I could successfully take a few years off and he would neer know until we got to the alter!
2006-10-05 01:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, i say don't lie. First of all you want a person to want you for who you are, age and all. Second of all, if it does turn to more than casual dating a relationship based on a lie already has strikes against it because they will find out. If the older person is so much older that in some way it's inappropriate as in illegal, then of course they should leave it alone. But both people should have the chance to make an informed decision and to be mature and accepting of that decision whatever it may be.
2006-10-05 08:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by leavemealonestalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever ever lie on basic informations about yourself. It would come back to you in the end or you might be lying more and more to cover for it if things go rough. I tell you it is not easy to be in that kind of situation. Now while you are not yet too involved, tell him the truth and just get over it if he won't accept you as you are coz it would hurt you more if you lie now and later he found out about it, by then you'll be more involved with him and getting over it would be harder...
2006-10-05 08:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by sweetangel_theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, first of all age is just a number to me. If this person likes me for who I am then that would be great and we might become something but if he chooses to make the idea of me being older than him an issue then forget it..why would I waste my time trying to work something out when he isn't open-minded about it anyway.
2006-10-05 09:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just to get your foot in the door < but eventually confess cause their is nothing worst than being know as a liar form the get go . Not a good way to start a relationship
2006-10-05 08:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by kimberly f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
Starting a relationship on a lie is disaster! the whole thing will be a lie then! just be honest
2006-10-05 08:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by OTNEB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I wouldn't lie cuz if ur 2 old for them u should know better not to try to get with them.
2006-10-05 08:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by baker_shay_nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I'm more about "this is me, like it or not" person. I'm not going to lie to get with someone. If they have a problem with me, then it's their problem, not mine.
2006-10-05 08:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if this is the only area in your life where you are concerned about compunction, then you are a saint!
Of course it is all-right to "adjust" your age.
If I liked someone I would rather them embellish a bit than not go out with me
2006-10-05 09:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never,the truth is always the best way to go. It will always come out sooner or later. They will either like you for you,,or they wont like you at all. Dont sweat it.
2006-10-05 08:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋