Her intended is an acquaintance of mine who i'm on fair terms with, she don't know that I know about what she did, or about him. I even have compeling evidence so its wouldn't b a case of her word against mine. Should I step in or leave it alone?
2006-10-05 00:55:40 · 28 answers · asked by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him!!! it is only fair, if it was you in his shoes wouldn't you want to know before starting a life together on lies?
It is only fair...
2006-10-05 00:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone unless you are asked point blank by the fiancee. She will be found out eventually. If it is an ongoing thing then it will come out sooner. If it is a one time deal then it might not ever come out. It might have been a one time mistake that happened. SO I would just wait and see first!
2006-10-05 08:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Simple Life? HAHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go and tell the person being cheated about this so that he will not spoil his life. You can save a man's life and save him from the deppression and all the sad part if you tell before they get married
2006-10-05 08:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it happened to you wouldn't you want to knkow. You should let him know what he's getting himself into before he makes the mistake of his life. Marriage is very sacred, and if she's not faithful to him now then, Lord knows what she'll do when they're married!!
2006-10-05 07:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by hotchick5195 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, it is none of your business. If you must do something, talk to the person who cheated and let them know you know and see what they have to say for themselves.
2006-10-05 08:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm theres for and against getting involved in this.
For - he deserves to know and should be told
Against - he may chose not to believe you and end up making you the to be the bad person.
Tread carefully - this is a serious thing to get involved with but ultimately he DOES deserve to know xx
2006-10-05 08:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend on how close you are with her guy and how serious your friend or relation is taken the affair with her. I advise you give her another try to find out if she did it out mistake or she just like that.
2006-10-05 08:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone they will find out soon enough without your help. This way you are still a friend.
2006-10-05 07:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. I know i would want to know. She obviously isn't getting married to him for the right reasons so why allow things to continue, expensive wedding....then further hurt down the line..
2006-10-05 08:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could do one of a few things here: confront her with your proof (after having made copies), this could be awkward if you don't know her well. gently confront him with your proof and hope he accepts it, or send it to him anonymously so that you don't get dragged into the upcoming mess. one way or another, he should know what he's getting into before the final commitment is made. best of luck to you and to him, he's gonna need it.
2006-10-05 08:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋