Well we broke up nearly a month ago now but its still feels like he is part of my life. Hr broke up with me because he felt like it just wasnt enough for him and felt like is this as good as it gets? Well sometimes i was stroppy and wanted my own way but most people are like that at times but overall i very much loved me ex boyfriend and part of me still does just wish i could be in his arms again. He is 18 and a week after we broke up he met a 20yr old with a child of her own. They pulled and ever since they hav met up once when he was out clubbing but they always txting eachother. But the i txt this other guy and went round his a couple of time but both of us were hung on on our exes and i dont like him in that way. Im scared he likes her in this way and he will sleep with her. But he doesnt want a relationship from anyone + she has a child. I dont kno if he will ever love me again he syas he is not going anywhere and we hav agreed to be friends help! its hard but i kno i can moveon
2006-10-05 00:19:30 · 10 answers · asked by moi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
R U an idiot?
@ Didn't U know while letting him in ur life and body and soul, that love some time hurts. It will hurt you if u don't get him back,
@ Lady if you have srength, GO, GET HIM BACK. Where ever you find him, hold his hand firmly, drag him to you appartment. Throww him on the bed and start "KILLING" him. When he is ultimately "DEAD", tel him U don't wanaa be a looser.
@ Have guts to snatch him back.
@ Be a strong girl. Don't let any WOMAN to get into his life. He is yours.
@ By the way Y did U break up?
@ It wud've been better, I knew it?
2006-10-05 00:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have said that he does not want a relationship from anyone, but it sounds like he is very much pursuing this woman. There is nothing that you can do about this or should do about this, except to move on. Like you said, it is hard to move on, but that is all that you can do. You deserve better. You deserve for someone to tell you that his life is wonderful and complete with you, not that "it's not enough for him." So, when you find yourself obsessing over your breakup, refuse to let yourself spend so much time thinking about all this and make yourself think about something good. Give it time.
2006-10-05 07:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by RKC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 1 take care of yourself......move on. If you CAN be a friend to each other thats great.
#2 Don't be sitting around worrying about what he is doing, that will drive you crazy. There are other people out there. Enjoy life.
If he wants you, he'll be back ...sometime. if not...then its wasn't ment to be.
#3 Don't waste time on him. He's probably not worth the effort.
2006-10-05 07:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can move on and be happy one day when you realize what makes you happy. when something is over it is hard to change we all know,but there is something new and different awaiting you out here and a whole new journey opening up for you to meet new people and find a different love,how exciting is that ? someone new and different. find that all new person and don't look for the same things in your new journey that you looked for before. let all things be new and have fun,life is for exploring and the people you meet along the way are not always meant to be permanent.
2006-10-05 07:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! You said it, move on. If he wants to see someone else with a child or not, should not be your business. Spend less time with him if its truly over and if you can't stand being apart from him, tell him and find out why he just can't come back.
If he still wants his space, you have no choice but to move on.
2006-10-05 07:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-05 07:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
seriously get rid ... delete his number from your phone ... chuck out allllll the pics and stuff from him and do something new ... wen i go through a break up i die my hair or cut it all off ... change my dress sence and get a new job
2006-10-05 07:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by tweetybird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question. You are young and though its hard move on!
2006-10-05 07:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to let him do you in the rear.
He will accept, then realize you are so GIVING. You will have him back.
2006-10-05 07:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him don't be stupid
2006-10-05 07:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋