I know nothing about it since my current bf is an orphan... but I'm kinda curious here, if somehow I manage to talk to and meet with my future FATHER/MOTHER-in-law, what should I tell them? What should I do to make them accept me as their future DAUGHTER-in-law?
2006-10-05 00:11:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The best way is to treat them and behave with them like they are your mother and father, then you will not have a problem
2006-10-05 00:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that YOU BE YOU and not be anything else. One shouldn't have to impress or put on airs....just because these people are going to be future family doesn't mean you have to be someone you're not on their account.
Be polite, congenial and be able to communicate intelligently. This is all that is needed to establish and form a relationship with your future in-laws.
2006-10-05 00:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, does your future husband want to meet his parents? If not, who are you to look them up and just happen to meet them. If it is something that HE wants, then treat them like you want to be treated, with kindness. If he knows nothing about you wanting to meet them, then stay out of it. It could be a very hurtful thing for him that you do not need to pry in to.
2006-10-05 04:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by nnett64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you meet his parents if he is an orphan?- I am an orphan- both my parents are dead- may be orphan means something different to you- or him- anyway- be yourself-D
2006-10-05 00:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about something that hasn't happened yet?
2006-10-05 01:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.. dont pretend of who you are not..
2006-10-05 00:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Maia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋