why men and women are so different?

Question

why they are so different in thought, behaviour, understanding, etc? dont all of those things make the relationships between them dont work and always end up to nothing?

And why cant they understand each other?

What do u think?

Answer 1

women put more thought into their actions they think about romance and love and how it will be in the future , So this is my take on things.... women are more organized and emotional where a guy can be that way but not as often and definitely not with out a great deal of effort ,
He is spontaneous and less likely to figure on the repercussions of his actions thus the way men seem to appear unthinking and hurtful and plead innocent or unknowing.
Its just that we do and you design . Forgive us we are only males after all.

Answer 2

Honestly I think this difference is also victim of mediatization. Sure there are differences between men and women but with the medias almways talking about these differences it just makes the rift between men and women larger and larger.

Here's an example of what I mean. I live in Montreal where about 3 weeks ago there was a shooting in a downtown college and some kids dying. Well following this there's been more shootings in the US and we had incidents here where other kids were making online threats to classmates.

You see if the media keeps driving a message across sooner of larger the masses will believe.

So ultimately I don't the the differences between men and women are that vast. I feel media should concentrate on our similarities. That would be a lot more conducive to better men/women relations and this could be applied to all kinds of personal, social and international relations.

Sometimes are social ills affect our personal outlook more than we think.

Answer 3

Cultural feminism is the theory that there are fundamental personality and psychological differences between men and women, and that women's differences are not only unique, but superior. This theory of feminism takes note of the biological differences between men and women - such as menstruation and childbirth - and extrapolates from this the idea of an inherent "women's culture." For example, the belief that "women are kinder and gentler than men," prompts cultural feminists call for an infusion of women's culture into the male-dominanted world, which would presumably result in less violence and fewer wars. At its core, the theory ascribes to a form of gendered essentialism. Cultural feminism seeks to improve the relationship between the sexes and often cultures at large by celebrating women's special qualities, ways, and experiences, often believing that the "woman's way" is the better way, or that the culture discussed is overly masculine and requires balance from feminine perspectives.

Critics of cultural feminism, particularly those of the men's rights groups, assert that cultural feminism is misandric in nature, and also assert that there is no evidence to support that a woman's way is any better then a man's.

Answer 4

They may be different physically.But they are not different pshycologically .They are one and the same.We people out of ignorance feel that men and women are different.If we look the things with positive out look every thing appears fair and lovely.
The mind is the place where we can create hell out of heaven and heaven out of Hell.
Just like that if we are able to see men and women with impartial eye both are equal.No one is inferior to any one.
They are created for one holy purpose that is the purpose of happy union.

Answer 5

you will never understand a man, men are from another planet they only think of them selfs and getting their dick wet they will say what they think you want to hear when you want to hear it and do what they want the rest of the time the sooner you stop trying to work them out the better off you will be and a relationship to a man is ill shag ya when your here but hey if your now its the next girl

Answer 6

Due to this women are emotional and men are intellectual crap. I came to believe that men never use their hearts. They never feel like this was a special woman in my life. They do not feel as abandoned, heartbroken or hurt after a break up. Think of man without reason (This women to men) and think of woman without a heart (This is man to woman).

Answer 7

Hey..don't try to mess up with the law of nature..plus isn't that what makes the relationship interesting????

Answer 8

itz simple men r born in mars and women in venus r vice versa.
opposite poles attract,like poles repel is t law,if they r different n opposit there is attraction dude

Answer 9

the difference between male and female understanding is more than just their sex ... its more an indervidual clash

Answer 10

Because women are crazy