2006-10-04 23:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by Wendz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i don't even have anyhting to say to them and the more i try the more i feel i just don't belong
2006-10-04 23:46:38 · update #1
i don't even have anyhting to say to them and the more i try the more i feel i just don't belong
2006-10-04 23:46:41 · update #2
you can't pick you family but you can pick your friends
2006-10-04 23:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by k dog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you feel this way, ask yourself: would "total strangers" let me live with them? would they feed me? would they buy me clothes or take me to the doctor?
Of course the answer if "NO" because they don't love you. Ever think that maybe you're the one with the problem, not your family? Hormones when you're growing up can be very difficult. Depression can cause people to feel isolated. I'd suggest that you talk to a counselor and get yourself some help. If you really want to help yourself, you will try to make the best of this life you've been given. Godloveya.
2006-10-05 01:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still try to love them and accept your differences. Any like everyone else has said, make friends - enjoy life.
Sometimes family relationships change over time. Your family will always be there for you (hopefully) just like you would be for them.
Keep talking - keep loving.
2006-10-04 23:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kare♥Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes strangers make better conversationalists than family does. You'll never run out of things to talk about. But when it comes right down to it, blood is thicker than water.
2006-10-05 00:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you "march to the beat of a different drummer". Sometimes people don't have a lot in common with their family. Wherever you find your niche is where you need to be...
2006-10-04 23:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself is there anything at all that can bring you closer to your family, a common interest anything at all. if all else fails i've resigned in the fact that you can choose your friends but not your family.
2006-10-04 23:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by valentina c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dont freak out or stress bout that, its not uncommon. u r ur own person, ya know? just dont let urself strayin away from or judgein them as if u didnt or werent part of them. theyll alwayz be ur family. cont 2 b urself and learn to accept them, as hopefully they accept u.
2006-10-04 23:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that my grandma's old proverb is true: You can't pick your family, but luckily you can pick your friends.
2006-10-04 23:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple...make friends...enjoy life!
2006-10-04 23:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Killua 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋