how can i be sure? i still want to be him, but miss him soo much, what shall i do?
2006-10-04 23:25:33 · 13 answers · asked by leanne02uk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tricky one this, i suppose what you have to ask yourself is "do i believe him when he tells me that" If you do then go for it. If you dont believe him then there are some issues of trust that need to be thought about, not suprising after only 3 months, but i would say dont get possessive, ive had that happen when my ex thought i would play away and she got over possessive and that drove me away.
2006-10-04 23:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by beardedbiker84 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I had been going out with my gf for 2 1/2 years, we had a perfect relationship and everything was great. But we split up 3 months after she started.
Basically I was a very small part of her life, someone she only saw once a fortnight. She had a new life with new friends and I just wasn't a part of that.
So if you have been together 3 months it doesn't look good, my gf going to uni destroyed our rock solid 2 1/2 year relationship.
Sorry to sound negative but it is the truth unfortunately
2006-10-04 23:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Curious Person 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U can never be sure of such things. Even if he promises you the most perfect promise, and really sincerely means it then.... people NEVER know what lies in the future. New people enter, new environment, new changes..
Love is like that, u gotta take a risk and just trust him.
But dun try to control too much like calling him too often or insisting on visiting his dorm too often (make him invite you)..cos the outcome of those actions is he will be naturally smothered... so trust, play it cool and sweet, and hope for the best.
2006-10-05 00:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure he doesnt intend to do anything, and maybe he wont. But when people go away to uni, they change alot living away from home, there's loads of social events and alcohol and as much as they intend to stay faithful, from what i've seen of my friends at home and at uni, they rarely stay together.
maybe yours will be the exception to the rule, but i have to say, after only 3 months together, I doubt it
2006-10-04 23:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he says he wont do anything im sure he wont..
If you dont trust him why are you together in the first place...
If he really loves you and wants to stay with you iim sure he'll stay faithfull after all not all men are cheaters!!! There is some good ones!!
And if he does he's not worth the tears!! and you'll know straight away if he's been un faithfull!!
2006-10-04 23:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by **SARAH** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you to expect the worst - unless you have plans to stifle each other's higher education experience you#ll find you#ll grow apart. If you head off to Uni too - you'll find exactly the same thing happens to you!
2006-10-04 23:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um i don't think he could be trusted sorry to say it but if u are apart hes drunk n there's no chance of u finding out i think he may cheat sorry to say it but that's just the way men r. i would find sum 1 that u can see more often 3months isn't that long and long distance relationships are really hard
2006-10-04 23:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he means that much to you, you have to trust his word. Try not to let your feelings of jealousy take over... They will only push him away.
If you find that you just can't trust him, then the relationship will never survive.
2006-10-05 00:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mark C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all a relationship includes trust if you l;ove him you should trust him if theres no trust then its not meant to be you should trust eachother 100% if not then you will never trust eachother again
what would you do if he thought the same about you u wouldnt like it would you but honest just enjoy the relationship
2006-10-04 23:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by forshawjennifer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't trust him; if you did, you wouldn't be asking this question.
So, if you don't trust him, then have you really got anything worth hanging onto?
2006-10-04 23:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋