Wierd and wicked Brother in Law?

Question

My brother in law is only 14. He is a wierd kid and seems to only get worse. He was like my own brother. My husband is currently posted in Middle East and is away from home.

He has recently started to behave very badly with me. He keeps walking around in his underwear in front of me. Right in front of me, he touches his private parts through his clothes. Several times I have caught him removing my private clothes/underwea*r from my wash bucket.

Once (in the morning) when I went to wake him up, his private part was aroused & exposed partially. He is no longer a kid. After that on every chance, he exposes his privates to me. I stay away from him and am a little scared what to do.

Many times I have scolded him directly. Now i dont know how to get out of this situation. His family is VERY supportive (blindly) of him and do not believe my words against him. My husband is too far to do anything.

I am living in their house as my husband is now in middle east. Anyway my hubby likes staying in a 'joint' family.

Answer 1

i really do underastand ur situation and can feel how horrible it is to stay with such kind of a wicked boy....sweety, u got to handle this very carefully as it is a wierd thing, moreover ur brother in law is just 14 yrs old and i am sure that this is mere infactutaion for him and may be his friends are backing him on this regard..just try and have a small conversation with him when u both are alone, and it shd be in such a way that he shd realise that wat he is doing is not rite.tell him that the status of sister in law is equal that of ones mother...try and give him some oppurtunities to rectify his mistake..if it doesn't work, u got to spk with ur husband regarding this and make sure that u put it across in such a way that ur husband feels sorry for u and also at the same time make sure that the family doesn't break because of u...hope u understand wat i am trying to say....make sure that ur people does not blame u for spliting the family...always keep in mind that u r an indian and by now i am sure u wud have understood the mentality of indian inlaws..keep in mind all these things and do somthing before its too late..at the same time be cautious..hope this has helped u...rlpy if possible...bye

Answer 2

Here is an idea...He has friends right? Find out their phone numbers and have a surprise party for him or just invite them over for a special occasion. Once they are all there Tell them all what he has been up to. He will probably deny it all, but persist in telling them exactly what he does. Laugh during the whole thing to try to make it light. He will probably be very embarrassed, as his friends will probably start laughing too, at him. If he doesn't respect you then show him how disrespectful and sneaky you can be. I bet he will grow up 10 fold after that. If that doest work...next time he does something like that, punch him right in the nose real hard. He will evetually get the message to smarten up, and that your a force to be recond with. You military husband I am sure would agree. If he calls the cops, which I doubt, be sure to tell him that his behaviour is also against the law. The little pisser...Good luck.

Answer 3

Devika,

Looks like you have a problem with hormone! Well not yours but the little bastards! Well, you can solve this problem by acting like you are his mother. Give him love and affection of the motherly kind and not the other kind. Wear clothes that dont show your assets. Dont make it a big deal and the kid will get his kicks somewhere else soon and will leave you alone and by the way never be alone with him as your hormones may kick in and you will be commiting statutory rape.

A ***** kid is dangerous and you have to deal with it very delicately.

Answer 4

start to be more vocal,i mean when he does those things speak loudly so others in the house can hear your complaints.take pictures of his antics and show them to the family,lastly,if possible move out,go home, I know this may not be possible but but try.at least you haven't taken advantage of this kid,some women would.I hope this works out for you and the little trouble maker with no respect for his brother or himself,i hope he gets caught.

Answer 5

Its ok, yet i think of you the two would desire to be in strengthen and uncomplicated with one yet another and take it sluggish - you would be able to desire to look on the extra severe case difficulty. You the two do no longer desire to pass diving in, have a bad wreck up, each and all the family become in touch and so on arguments, taking aspects (in basic terms think of your bro taking your section , sil taking his section and then each and every time your bro and sil have a particular party, you will would desire to placed on a courageous face reason he could be there. needless to say no longer asserting this is going to take place, yet its some thing you would be able to desire to make optimistic of, earlier leaping in given which you will continuously have an attachment there by using your brother and sil.

Answer 6

Whats' up baby? Ur brother in law is wicked & ur sister in law is gay (ur previous query). I feel pity for you. Its not their problem. Hope you are addicted to the habit of cooking up ****** stories. Either you must be doing this to attract someone or bursting out as your husband not in reach (if really he is in Omen). My advice to you is kick up your heels and get satisfied with someone so that these thoughts would come to an end.

Answer 7

take a video of him in his underwear touching his private parts and threaten to put it on youtube or at least show his parents. but you dont really have to be afraid of him, what can a 14yr old kid do to an adult? but remember to get him to see a doctor.

Answer 8

I'd pull that kid aside and tell him he's not my kid and he best knock that **** off because it's nothing for me to put a knot or 2 upside his head as I don't even deal with **** like that and there's only one way to find out. Dare me?

Answer 9

come on girl....Try 2 get out from this bad condition....call Ur husband....tell him each n every thing that u r telling in yahoo answer......do it immediately.....2 get rid of ur sick bro in law...u can tell him on Phone...n ask him 2 come back Or call u over there..........i dont think so any Husband ll Ignore if he came 2 know all this stuff

Answer 10

THIS IS ALSO A PROBLEM WITH THIS TYPE OF PERSON IN THIS AGE, YOU ARE HIS SISTER IN LAW SOMETIMES THEY DO THE SAME THINGS IN FRONT OF THEIR AUNT ETC. PARENTS DO NOT BELIEVE THE DAUGHTER IN LAW BECAUSE OF HIS AGE. ON OTHER HAND HE IS THEIR SON. NOW YOU WILL HAVE TO REMAIN CAREFUL. ALWAYS IGNORE HIS NON-SENSE ACTIVITIES. ALWAYS SUPPORT FOR HIS EARLY MARRIAGE TO HIS PARENTS. TALK VERY FRANKLY WITH HIM ABOUT THE GIRLS OF HIS CLASS AND NEIGHBOUR HOOD. HE WILL BECOME YOUR FOLLOWER. THEN USE HIM FOR YOUR DAILY WORK BRING VEGETABLE FROM MARKET AND ALL THOSE WORK WHICH YOU WILL HAVE TO DO. BUT REMAIN CAREFUL. DO NOT ALLOW TO SLEEP HIM WITH YOU.