Do you think that a guy who looks very good, is smart and funny, has big dreams and doesn`t want to have a girlfriend is a looser?
don`t worry... i`m not gay and i admire girls a lot!!
i just think is not the time yet (after all i`m 16) :D
and one more thing!!
how should i say "no" to a girl, without offending her??
2006-10-04 23:00:23 · 10 answers · asked by Eagle Eye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think firstly, you have to show.... your feelings......... about that girl in front of her and simply say no to her.
i dont think this is complicated matter it so easy just be honest........... to everyone even if she is a girl.
best of luck......
2006-10-04 23:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a looser . . . in fact you sound very mature...go for your dreams - you'll have plenty of time for girlfriends later. If the girl in question is worthwhile having as a friend, just be honest and tell her straight that you are not ready for a relationship yet - hopefully she will understand, you sound also very kind for considering her feelings.
You only live once, and you should never live your life being dictated by others' expectations.
2006-10-05 06:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not a looser , just the opposite . It sounds to me like you want to get your life off on the right foot . Finish your studies and set your goals in the real world and there will be plenty of time for girls later !
2006-10-05 06:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is depending upon person's choice to have or have not the girlfriend. If you are not interested make it clear that it is not the time to think about relationships but to think to lay the foundation of a bright future.
2006-10-05 06:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by nanu T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong that whatsoever....you just know what you want from life....well just tell her the truth, that you are not ready for a relationship, you would rather have her as a friend.... the truth is always the best
2006-10-05 06:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Wendz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here about the no thing
try "(name) its been nice talking with u and i had a great time but i think were not compatible....
here u can't say a guys smart and funny because his so cute u can say that only if you know he really is....
2006-10-05 06:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by niculas_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh... Dun worry, just say no 2 her but tell her nicely. Im a gal 2 n im ur age 2... I haf fwens dat say no 2 gals u knw.....
2006-10-05 06:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not ready for a gf relationship then dont...
just do ur stuff anyway ur still young....
love can wait,do ur priorities in life...njoy while young....
gud luck
2006-10-05 06:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say no and f u believe n yourself dont give a sh*t of what others thinks
2006-10-05 06:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by missing u2323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i just want to be friends and i think she'll understand.
2006-10-05 06:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by peapeacokk l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋