HI i am in a bit of a dilemma lol this lad i fancy and adore always flirts with me when we are on our own but when he is with his mates he acts like i arent there does any1 know why they do this? I dont know wot to do i would relli appreciate it if you gave me your advice thank you xx love sammijo xx
2006-10-04 22:32:56 · 16 answers · asked by sammijo4eva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He does like u but when he is with the guys hes gotta act cool or they will make fun of him..tell him that u like him when u r alone and he might kiss u.
2006-10-04 22:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lads have this ability to feel better about chattin up and flirting with girls when there on there own because there no other competition around. He wants to be seen as being cool around his mates and probably throws in the odd sarcastic remark to make him look good around them, but secretley he likes you and you likehim so you should get ogether so that he can then boast about his 'bird' infront of his mates.
Basically its a lad thing and we will never nderstand there weird and wonderful ways!
2006-10-04 22:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jo. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I been though the same, I really fancied this boy and he was flirty and talkative when he was on his own and when he was out with his mates he was a whole different guy and just ignored me. Eventually he asked me out, I questioned him why he had treated me different with this mates, he said he really liked me and was shy about asking me out, he did not wish for any of his mates to pick up on this fact and take the mickey out of him. Just relax keep showing him you are interested in him when he is on his own, let things just happen in there own time. If he still acts this same once you are an item, then I would forget about him and find someone else whom is proud to be seen with out in any company.
2006-10-04 23:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even grown men act this way. When they are with their mates they would be far too embarrassed to flirt with their partner, whoever she is. It's all about male bonding and peer pressure. What you have to understand is that we men are simple creatures who act more out of instinct than profound thought no matter how 'intelligent' we are deemed to be. So don't worry about it. And if he really hacks you off, then dump him!
2006-10-04 22:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by los 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H eproberly feels uncomfatable flirting infront of his mates, you know what blokes are like they like to play the hard man when there with there mates...! Dont worry! If I was you I wouldnt flirt back when you are on your own with him, he will hate that!
2006-10-04 22:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Angelkiss85 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's immature and can't see a good thing when it's right in front of him.
Give him the push and get a guy a little more mature who knows how to treat a lady.
2006-10-04 22:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be cool in front of his mates.
if he is only interested in you when you are alone then watch out.
it seems that he wants sex from you but is ashamed in public that he knows you.
boys can be cruel his feelings are not the same as yours.
beware there will be heart break here if you keep on going for this boy.
find someone who is not ashamed to show you off in public.
2006-10-04 22:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by akyleryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lads flirt because they fancy you but when he is with his mates he pretends he doesnt.
If he is unattached and you fancy him let him know maybe it will go further.
2006-10-04 22:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a lad thing he dunt wanna look a wuss in front of 'the lads' dont worry bout it it'll change as n wen u get in a relationship hope all goes well 4 u hun Xxx
2006-10-04 22:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lady, he flirt with u when u r alone and refrains when someone is around, this is because, he just wanna make sure that u love him and once u tell him that u really love him, then just see the difference he will openly accept that he is in love with u and will flirt openly with u, openly mean even when someone is around, just make sure that u tell him that u love him, and then see the difference.
2006-10-04 22:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by rohit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋