i want to know if feelings i am experience are real or if they are just my imagination? there is a guy i met anbout a month ago and he is everything im looking for in a guy and more. he tells me everything i want to hear. he always calls me and checks up on me. he has told me he is falling for me and i try to lock up my heart. because in the past i have been hurt to much to even let or want to be hurt again. i truelly think im falling in love with him but im too scared to let go. being with him is incredible he is older than me but not by much. im 32 hes 40. i know age is nothing but maybe him being older he is more mature not to play heart games/ what do u think?
2006-10-04 22:30:21 · 10 answers · asked by sweet_love_12518 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it a try girl!Dont push him away because of past experiences.Every experience is different.Do you believe that people come into our lives for a reason?Well if you do,then you know that u should give him a chance-maybe he has come into your life to show you that you CAN love again.Love has its ups and downs and this is one of its biggest characteristics.Enjoy the moment and live life to its fullest.I dont want u to regret pushing love away when it was staring you in the face.I know and feel your pain.We have all been there but as the other girls say,this stuff makes us stronger!
2006-10-04 22:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 40 and I love you already(heh heh just kidding my wife would kill me)well just for a minute take a look away from what you feel.
ask yourself the real question,will I be happy with him,does he got his sh!t together,theres always gonna be rough seas over the horizon no matter at what age.If you dont take the chance you might regret it your 32 so you still have plenty of time if it fails,and youve probably had enough experiences to have stuff in common,keep the wall but build a gate ...only time will tell if its a true love.the rest is(as i'm sure you know)hard
2006-10-04 22:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive been there once before..But now I'm happy..He is 8 years older than me..
Juan is not Pedro. Everyone is different..What happen in the past should be forgotten..Dont let the past affect you..Move on, forget the past and give yourself another chance..
God always has a reason for everything, even if its hurt..He will give you even the most painful thing just for you to direct on his will..
Just know how to accept and how to move on..
2006-10-04 22:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by just me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No man's an island! That's what i've been told & no heart deserves to be alone. Love's a gamble I say that if your willing to LOVE your also willing to be HURT. It sounds like you go into relationships not expcting any mishaps to happen, well my sista things don't always to go as you expect them to go, that's what i call LIFE. Give this guy a chance but please leave some room for dissapointment because you don't know what he's thinking @ all times.
2006-10-04 23:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Darksword 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run with it. See what happens. Pain is part of the learning process. It's how we now what to fix for the next time. Have you ever gotten hurt learning to ride a bike? Got right back up and tried again, didn't you? Emotional pain works the same way.
2006-10-04 22:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey 8 years time difference at that age is like 0. Has nothing to do with maturity level etc., but he probably is "founded" in his personality, meaning he probably won't change radically all of a sudden.
2006-10-04 22:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sanmigsean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you gotta just give in. If he ends up hurting you like the guys before him it's obviously nothing you can't handle cause you have been there. What hurts you makes you stronger!
2006-10-04 22:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by ruck_1978 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have a heart that can be broken than to have one that can't.
Open your heart...a flower won't grow where there is no sun.
2006-10-04 23:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, just make sure there is nobody on the other side of it or they could get hurt
2006-10-04 22:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by *JC* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go 4 him girl.
2006-10-04 22:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by bukky b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋