too be in love with two peolple at once the problem is both think im so hot and dont want to leave me
2006-10-04 22:25:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not in love with both of them. Not true romantic love anyways. I love my friends, I love my mother, I love my truck. I love a lot of things, but they are all different kinds of love. If you feel the same feelings for both of these guys, then you know that to lead them both on is destructive and in no way beneficial, nor does it suggest that you actually love both of them.
Why do you need to love both of them anyways? Can't you just like them, have a good time and date them and other people? If one asks for a serious relationship, then cross that bridge when you get there. In the meantime, go out and have some fun!
2006-10-04 22:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously young so there's nothing really wrong with it. (you gave it away by saying something like "they both think I'm so hot") At your age, it's all about you and rightfully so. It's ok to be selfish and enjoy yourself at your age as long as you are safe. Just try not to hurt anyone too badly and be honest with them both. You are not really in love with them both. You are in love with the idea that they both like you & the attention you are getting, which again, is quite alright. When you get older & really fall in love, it's not so much about you. It becomes about the other person. You fall in love and want to give yourself, give your time, your love, your respect to a special someone. Doing this for the one that you love, brings you wonderful things in return. Until then, enjoy. It is not Bad.
2006-10-05 05:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it's not bad being involved with two people at the same time.. cause im feeling the same thing right now.. hehehe.. and i can't leave any of them 'cause they're both very special to me..
2006-10-05 06:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Margaret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister,what r u getting into ?
That can be drastic you know? Don't be a play girl,or do u want to keep two men standing at the altar on your wedding day?.You should try n know where u belong.
2006-10-05 05:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's wrong! Come to me instead. Send pic first so I can verify if you're hot and of age. J/k
Love is subjective. It's only wrong if they don't know about each other.
2006-10-05 05:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Wyvante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing them both, then when it goes pair shaped find 2 new ones.
2006-10-05 05:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by Bigears!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you dating any of them. but i dont think its crazy there is noting wrong when 2 guys like you and u love them let them ask you out but dont date both of them.
2006-10-05 05:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by baby faced satan woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U're one lucky chick! Haha
2006-10-05 05:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by cscjm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady that wrong, at any point of time the true love is only for one partner, not for one then one, so just be with one.
2006-10-05 05:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by rohit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoVe is meant for everyone,
LoVe if you one to be LoVed!
2006-10-05 05:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by MaSTeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋