Why is my man such a sour puss when it comes to having fun sexually? He doesn't want a threesome or anything. He got mad when I told him most men would love to have a night of pleasure with 2 women. He doesn't like it when I dress up in role playing outfits, like a sexy nurse, he doesn't want me to give him lap dances or anything. I am willing to do anything to sexually to satisfy him, but he's a no go most of the time. I want to take showers with him and have sex in the shower, and he's a no go. I want to use lotions and he's a no go. I want to be spanked for some freakyness, and he's of course a no go. He wants it missionary all the time and I just get sick of the same sex. He won't even put a porno on. He just doesn't understand. Most men would die for a woman to dress up, give them lap dances and try different postions. I want to dress up in school girl outfits, strip for him, I even took pole dancing classes. I want to have sex on the kitchen table. I'm 22 and I want some fun!
2006-10-04 21:39:11 · 19 answers · asked by Kait_baby22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard to understand why you're still with him, or even why you got together with him in the first place. Doesn't sound like he's about to change, either - so my advice would be dump him and find a guy who can match your sense of sexual adventure. From what you say in your other question you're an attractive girl - so it shouldn't be too difficult.
2006-10-04 22:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling him what you want to do and start doing it with and to him. He is in the shower you should strip and join him. Walk around in you costumes and seduce him.
Yell to him dinner is ready and be on the kitchen table telling it is snack time. Be aggressive and go for it. Maybe he is afraid and doesn't understand that all this is between you and him only. Last drop the three some stuff. He is not interested and only wants you.
2006-10-04 21:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me that the two of you are NOT sexually compatible.
It seems you have tried every trck in the book to try and entice your sexual relationship and nothing has worked.
My advice is......if he is not willing to work with you, and before you start cheating on him, break it off. I'm sure somewhere out there you will find your match when it comes to sexaul adventures. It is clear that this is not the case.
Good Luck
2006-10-04 22:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by spanishflyin_tx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are scaring him or you haven't found what really turns him on. Does he avoid any conversation on the topic? If yes, then you are making him uncomfortable. Go slower and take more of a trainer/learner attitude.
2006-10-04 21:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by justdennis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to sow your wild oats. If you don't you'll always feel like you missed out. You're only 22 once.
Sounds like this man is not for you.
2006-10-04 21:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems that you had more experience than him, if you really love him, then follow what he likes,
try reverse reaction.
try to be a monk if that what he wants, then lets see what would be his reaction. when time comes that he feels dull. then he might make some changes w/ you.
2006-10-04 21:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by plinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times you want to ask this same question over and again???
2006-10-04 22:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like me to do all of the above for you? (I'm not very good with the pole thing though....)
2006-10-04 21:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by hugh_cheung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better get him to a shrink something wrong with that man, ever try online :) yahoo messenger?
2006-10-04 21:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, is he deeply religious or is that how his parents were? He's not gonna change!! don't stifle yourself, move on if it's that important to you.
2006-10-04 21:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋