Our relation was amazing, we love each other like crazy! I live in South America and her in the States.But then she went back home, she had convinced me to go to and study where she lives. And suddenly I had decided to leave everything behind: family, friends, a business opportunity and I even got the opportunity to go into a school for my Masters 10 minutes away from her and then she told me it was going too fast and we should end it ! Because if I move there she will leave in a year to make her doctorate somewhere else and she ended it.I told her I respected her desition and we ended as friends but I want to get her back so bad ! We still talk and are good friends, HELP ME PEOPLE PLEASE I LOVE HER AND I WILL DO ANY THING TO GET BACK WITH HER! I know she is the one for me , because I've never felt love so strong and pure!
2006-10-04 20:43:14 · 10 answers · asked by Don1982 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she felt she was being pressured - moving all the way to another country to be with someone is no joke - it means committment - and maybe she wasn't ready for that.
I always say:
If someone doesn't love you, turn your back and walk away cos the bottom line is, You can't make someone love you. If you give her space, don't talk to her like "friends", then maybe she'll want you back.
2006-10-04 20:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by cscjm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, so sorry to read your woes.
I think you need to let her have some time and just be friends with her for now. Don't pressure her in anyway (people don't like to be forced into things) and give her lots of opportunity to see you at your best. Only ever do good things and don't freak out and stalk her or just 'happen' to turn up at the same places, coz you'll lose her for sure then.
It's hard, we all know, but try to relax and take things slowly. If she falls for you again, then fantastic, but if not then at least you know now and not in 5 years time when you're married with kids and too many regrets.
We're all wishing you the best in this.
2006-10-05 03:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You showed her your to easy and a girl that is trying to get a doctorates obviously likes a challenge. You showed her your too available by moving away from everyone and now you scared her by showing how committed you are. She probably wants some space because she dosnt want so much pressure. Show her that your not trying to pressure her into anything and surprise her with things she loves. Like buy her flowers just to signify you miss her or invite her to watch a movie she really likes so she can ease her mind. She is probably focused more on school if anything. Tell me how it goes.
2006-10-05 03:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by rony d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much more can you take..see it's all about divide and conquer, classes are directed by seedy little people who work like they were taught by the same integrity that enveloped the Catholic religion, they want ti put stuff in your girls head where you think the teachers get their cookies off, or get their buzz, it making it look bureaucratic and normally monotonous but in reality, have you ever taken the time to figure out that the male teacher in front of the class sitting down and all the students facing him at what point do you conceive his personal Target fixation on his own pleasures of being there, teachers are out of the question and can you deal with more knowledge of how bad it is out there to have disadvantages in line with more pain that will only reveal more about the fabrics of ignorance and life and gee this sucks
2006-10-05 04:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't , don't beg and don't pout ....They always say you want what you cant have .... Find someone else and move on . You will see that after you do . She'll want you back . Why ....to prove to herself she still has you wrapped around her little finger . You then drop the new gal and then she drops you again. It's a game and it is played with immature people who are just not grown up enough yet to know when they are being used....WHAT A WIMP
2006-10-05 03:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your *** on a plane and go to the US to see (surprise) her and propose! How romantic. If she loves you, she will be thrilled and know for a fact you are very committed to her and all this isn't just talk. Love always finds a way to work things out.
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-05 03:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pat K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to show your pure love by "giving an advertisement on the famous newspaper" by placing ur photograph and some good writings and ask her to apologise for what u made.
2006-10-05 03:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to the states.
2006-10-05 03:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk like adults and talk about yo feeling everything will be alright especialy if u liked each other that much
2006-10-05 03:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by crazygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her do what she wished for then you only pursuade her to back with you.
Good luck!
2006-10-05 03:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Cathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋