Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year. He loves me and I think that I event though he drives me insane sometimes. 3 months ago I met this guy through a friend. I've been talking to him as a friend weekly, he claims that he likes me. I think that I'm slightly atracted to him but I don't know him that well. Should I see if there is anything with this new guy and leave my bf heartbroken OR stay with my bf and forget about the other guy? Please help
2006-10-04 20:38:17 · 24 answers · asked by Krisy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey , Your boyfriend loves you, all men drive woman insane at some point but with out our lives will be dull.
Stay with your boyfriend and enjoy the time you spent with him, in the mean time remain friends with the new guy and be honest to your bf.
If things don't work out with you boyfriend, and you still friends with the new guy and if he really liked you then you could hook up later in like.
Good Luck!!!
2006-10-04 20:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with your boyfriend! But you are NOT being a very good gf going behind his back and secretly talking to someone else! After a year of being with the same person the excitment changes and the relationship becomes more normal/ sometimes boring! Find some new exciting things to do with your current bf, so you can get some of the magic back!
Think about your bf and forget some guy that says that he likes you! There is love on the line!!!
2006-10-05 03:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Peachy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing if your thinking of leaving a loyal boyfriend that loves you your insane. That is the problem with girls they always think that there is something better out there but guess what there isn't if you leave your boyfriend for this guy you will be in the same situation with this new guy a year down the road from now, And your ex will probably end up being much happier with a loyal loving girlfriend who would never think of leaving him. So just get rid of the temptation and tell the new guy that you love your boyfriend, and are never leaving him.
2006-10-05 03:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tom F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, its partially your BF's fault. He should give you no doubt in your mind that your totally in love with him. Maybe he's not good enough? I don't know you guys I cant say.
This new guy may be showing you something that your current BF lacks. Is that a reason to leave your current BF? hell no. Try to have a relationship with him where the both of you can communicate freely. Find out what your BF lacks and help him be better in that department. Use the feelings that you have for this new guy intensify the feelings you already have for your current BF.
Then thank this new guy. Thank him for strengthening your relationship with your current boyfriend.
2006-10-05 03:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by gilafro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of thing that you consider "drive me insane sometimes?". If cheating and abusing don't count on that "drive me insane", then you should stay with your old bf. The new guy, just make friend with him. How would you know that the new guy would be better than your bf? Listen to ur own heart and feeling sweety..it's all up to you..
2006-10-05 03:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by yanti b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your place before... and I chose to give a chance to the new person cause obviously the person I was with at the time wasn't all that I needed if I even found myself asking the question of should I leave.... And it worked out good. Really good. I've been seeing the new person for ten months and have never been so in love in my life!!! Sit alone for a while and ask yourself what you like and don't like about your bf.... follow your heart.
2006-10-05 03:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the boyfriend your in a no win situation. This is exactly why I don't agree to date just one guy. All guys seem to want it this way but they don't want to tie the knot. You are doing the right thing by talking to this guy on the side and I admire you greatly. Something isn't right in your current relationship; if it was you would not be talking to this guy. If you have been in the relationship with your present boyfriend for a year and you are not at least engaged to be married; by all means talk to who ever you like. You have my support! I'm behind you 100%. You go girl!
2006-10-05 03:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u shouldn't post this question at all because in your heart, u already made a decision already... I are starting to find bad points of your bf so this is the start of u trying to move away from him...First thing is always to see wat u want... I dun think we can really help u much since u are the first person related to the problem so it is always your thoughts that matters... Second thing is u should know what u want in a r/s... At least in your heart, u know u love which one more... Thrid thing is after making a decision reject one of them immediately if not u will hurt boh of them...
2006-10-05 03:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kyoko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put in your boyfriends position and then ask your self how would it fell if he would do that to you!!!! Stay with your boyfriend ! Remember all the good times, memories, romantic things he has done for you! Maybe the other guy just wants to get into your pants and then you are all alone!
2006-10-05 03:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Don1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question: Is this other guy worth you leaving your current boyfriend? Will you regret it if it doesn't work out with this new guy.
Bottom line is, maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship and keep your options open until you are ready to settle down.
2006-10-05 03:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by lanalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋