If your not going out with a guy is it ok to initiate a date???
and how do you suddely tell a guy that you like him with out being totally obvious also what compiments do you like to hear to boost your ego.........17yr btw
2006-10-04 20:10:37 · 9 answers · asked by ask me a question! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i totally agree you should just ask him out or give him your number and tell him to give you a call sometime. if he blows you off, "he's just not that into you." if he takes the bait, he's interested in you! then you have a great chance to get to know each other and see how things go. a girl asked me out recently and it looks like we're going to end up together. i never ask girls out because i'm really shy. guys fear rejection too ya know ;) some of us love it when girls make the first move! if he doesn't like it, he wasn't the right guy for you anyway :)
2006-10-04 20:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally let the guy initiate, personal opinion...
I think the best way to get a guys attention is through friends... Surely, someone knows someone. Find out what activities he likes and attend one. He likes football, he plays for a team... Go to a game... Does he have interest in art, comics, or literature? Maybe he likes music.. Follow him to a music store and strike up a conversation there. "Hey, funny meeting you here... I came by to see if they had Hootie and the Blowfish's new cd."
2006-10-04 20:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its totally ok for a girl to ask a guy out. Alot of girls think we are mind readers and "know" when girls like us, but alot of times we just plain and simply dont know. Sometimes we just say "nah its our ego's thinking we're all that" and sometimes it just needs to be spelled out plain and simple.
Invite him for lunch either the two of your or with your girlfriends. Initiate the interaction between you two there's no harm in that.
2006-10-04 20:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by gilafro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax , guys sometimes like to get asked out! Get To Know what he is interested in, and try to talk to him about that !Try to notice all the things you have in common and share experiences with him. Establish a friendship first, then flirt a little and see how he reacts to it, if he responds in a flirting way means he is interested. If he seems weird maybe he doesn't like you or he is shy. Try that is the best way to know , if you don't try you will never know!
2006-10-04 20:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Don1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when I was in High School I was pretty shy. So I loved it when girls initiated dates. I think alot of guys like girls who are willing to take control. But it just depends on you and it depends on the guy. As far as compliments, as long as it's honest anything will do.
2006-10-04 20:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just ask him if he want to go to the movies or the mall or something and if he goes and tries to do anything while there then u know that he likes u 2
2006-10-04 20:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i do not know why not...ask him over or ask him if he would want to go see a movie with you...think of something he might enjoy and if he says yes then you have a date...you never know until you ask him....
2006-10-04 20:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident an start off with small talk, guys love a confident women who knows what she wants
2006-10-04 20:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by 84_4X4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,,,,, when you turn 18,, let me know,,, i will ask you out ahead of time now!!!!
good luck
2006-10-04 20:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋