define love in d best way
i love both of dem.my boyfrnd n his wife is unknown of r relation.v both love r patners bt v love each other 2.v knw r relation is nt long bt want 2 b 2gether as long as possible.v thought a lot about it n finally decided 2 kee r relation up
r v wrong?
2006-10-04 19:33:23 · 24 answers · asked by diya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
nothing is wront until it gets known by society.If your culture assists it go on.if not drop the case.
2006-10-04 19:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anand 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You might be in love because you aren't picking up his treadmarked underwear, doing laundry, making his breakfast, lunch, or dinner, cleaning the toilets, taking care of the kids and doing a whole bunch of other household tasks. It makes it much easier to daydream about his fine points when all you have to focus on is your hair, nails, clothes and makeup. Believe me if you lived with him, you would see those not so fine points too, like when he sits on the couch all day and farts up the room. No one is perfect, he may have all the right triggers that remind you of your "ideal" man, most likely very much like the father figure in your life. Try therapy or a self-help book on looking closely at the image of the person you want and you'll see he's just pushing those buttons. Arm yourself for a harsh ride, the earlier you get control of your thoughts the better. Figure out why he is interesting, piece by piece, make a list of what characteristics you need, want, and any extras. Find an AVAILABLE guy that has those things on your list. Married men are just not available to you, not physically for more than 20 mins at a time, emotionally, or mentally. They are usually not likely to tell you how they really feel about their wives. Just using you to express the anger and bitterness they have for the wife. Love is blind. What he does to her he would do you to later (cheat). A guy that will cheat with you --- if he would ever leave his wife, which statistically speaking is not likely -- when you get older and tired, he will "trade-in" you for a newer model too. Wake up call: he's just a tourist, a user, someone who travels through other's lives to take what they want and not give back the time and obligations of a committment. Good luck and try some 12 step program tips to get you off the addiction fix of thinking about him all day.
2016-03-18 05:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the ****? I cannot understand that gibberish. Hold on, let me send this through babelfish's gibberish to english translator. Okay, I've got it:
"I have a boyfriend who I love very much, but I also love a married man. We are emotionally attached. Am I right to pursue this relationship?
Define love in the best way.
I love both of them. My boyfriend and his wife do not know about our relationship. Both of us love out partners but we love each other as well. We know our relationship won't last but we want to be together as long as possible. We thought a lot about it and finally decided to continue our relationship. Are we wrong?"
Madam, I hope now that you can actually read what you just wrote you will see how absolutely batshit insane you are being. OF COURSE IT'S WRONG TO COMMIT ADULTERY. That should be the second goddamn thing your parents taught you about ethics, the first being "do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Which incidentally is quite relevant to this situation: would you want your boyfriend to be cheating on you with a married woman? But I'll tell you what, why don't you ask your boyfriend if HE thinks it's okay for you to be seeing this guy. And then ask this guy's wife the same thing - after all you are hurting her as much, if not more, than your boyfriend. If they think it's okay, then go ahead. Otherwise, GTFO before you end up ruining all three of your relationships.
2006-10-04 19:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pascal 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well dear...U R not Wrong But Keeping 2 relations at one time is Not right......try 2 choose one between them.....I think its better 4 u....u r Not showing sicereity 2 Ur bf.....he is married But still he is another Guy....This world is 2 short 2 Luv one person..how can u luv 2 @ one time...n the only one possible way is 2 tell Ur bf abt Him.....that u hv friendship with him......if he allows u then keep on Ur relation....If the Married Guy 2 luv u then think if he is Not sincere with his wife n how can he sincere with u?.......If u n the married whom u luv can afford 2 tell their partners...then Its FINE!!!!! for me luv is delicate, passionate, embraceable, understanding, patience,Sincereity......true Love is a feeling by which you embrace another soul into yourself......It is a feeling of expansion of the soul.....it really exist But it take time ........true Love can come in many ways, shapes, and forms.........by the books, the real definition of true love is: A strong, positive emotion of regard and affection for another person, ..............but I believe Love is not a label, its a feeling...Its an emotion......... Sad but true, it is way over rated and thought about too deeply. Most people spend their whole lives trying to define their feeling of love to another person, and trying to answer questions like "WHY" they love them and "WHAT" they love about them, n what is Luv in Its True Form......when its not like that all. The best way to explain love, is not to explain... I just do........... Its a feeling you just know is there, Not knowing why, you want to breath for that person u luv, laugh when they laugh, cry when they cry, and die when they die is a feeling that cannot be defined and shouldn't be. You will know when you love a person just by your heart and soul telling you, and when you finally have it and you finally feel it, you will know it, so keep and leave it as that, just the way it should ...Luv is Not Only between one Boy n Girl.....It is the Connection Between God n His Creatures...Mother n her baby..between friends.....simbling...u can feel it many ways
2006-10-04 20:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant say its love its attraction .. and U have no future with that MAN , so be clear wht u want in ur life .. a gud healthy family life or mixed up life .. if u dont solve it now then I can promise you will not be able to love one man rest of your life
2006-10-04 20:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by VJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on loving both of them since you love them and emotionally attached too.If one person love two at a time is there a rule that one love should be sacrificed?or Is there a rule that one person should love only one eligible person?You love as many as you want as long as you love them.
2006-10-04 20:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cool Lad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave the married man. Ive seen this same situation before and it only gets worse. Dont ruin a family! avoid it!!!!
2006-10-04 19:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by WatsMyName 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy.
2006-10-04 19:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by anonymouslook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u r going towards wrong way.a married man is just using of u.because if he is honest for u,then why he hate her wife?because for a married man,nothing important than her wife..i think now u can undestand..
2006-10-04 20:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by cool_mind711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to grow up and leave the married man alone and dont ruin his marriage he will do that on his own. learn to spell and be honest with yourself. if you truely love your boyfriend then you dont need another man.
2006-10-05 05:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by momma3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a skanky ***** who can't speak English properly. I hope this guys wife beats the ever living sh** out of you because you are scum and 10 points for Pascal!
2006-10-05 03:39:52 · answer #11 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋