Im loyal ,faithfulland would give my whole world away ,!money ? I hate it I believe in till death do you part? but last wife lied and cheated and got me 80,000 indebt I need a pretty honestlady who will stick by my side forever
2006-10-04 19:31:15 · 14 answers · asked by sneakers822 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Picking partners who are bad to you reflects on how you feel about yourself. What your wife did was not your fault, but it's up to you to set boundaries about what is acceptable and what is a deal breaker in any relationship. I'd say a cheater and compulsive spender must have shown signs before, maybe you ignored them. Take a look at what you did to contribute to perpetuating the problem and be careful before you choose again. Get to know a person over a long period of time. Genuine people as well as psychos show their colors after a while, they can't help it when the guard goes down. Reflect on yourself, get away from the wife permanently and forge ahead wiser.
2006-10-04 19:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by waterbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're like most of my nice guy friends, you see a cute, sexy girl who looks nice in a sweater and suddenly think she's the second coming. Not so. You want a nice girl next door type, find one. They don't look like Pam Anderson, but they won't dick with you. Think with your big head and not your little one, and I'm sure you'll be okay. I don't mean to be nasty, but I see this a lot. If a girl isn't treating you well, dump her and find someone else. And you can be romantic and still be smart. Just take it slowly and let the girl earn your love. The good ones will stick around. Trust me.
2006-10-04 19:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta be a little more "evil" yourself my friend. Sadly, this is the nature of the beast. No woman wants a nice guy. Nice guys finish last, I learned this the hard was just like you did!
beeing kind, gentle and loving is bad.
Paying for things, complimenting them and beeing faithful is bad
Women are evil, psycotic creatures who will always rip your heart out whenever they get the chance my friend! learn this well and learn to live alone. Your wallet could use the recovery time as well.
2006-10-04 19:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lord of the Apocalypse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheer up! you'll find someone worthy of yourself. dont think all women are like just because of one or a couple bad experiences. and dont think your life is over just coz you got a divorce and ripped off. Its not the end of the world. there is plenty more out there, once you can feel comfortable single and accept independence and being by yourself you may find it easier to meet women. Just when you do, dont rush in to it, dont start flashing around the dollars and gifts, she should want you for you not your wallet. But honestly a relationship isnt everything i really think you need to experience the fun sides of being single.
2006-10-04 19:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is be more alert when it comes to the women you date. Dont be so quick to trust, especially since you have been hurt so many times. Take your time with the woman your with. Get to know the real her. It seems that you are to quick to get involved and end up with the short end of the stick. Good luck dude.
2006-10-04 19:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some deep thinking as to what these kinds of women have that attracted your attention if this is a constant in your life.
There must be something about these kinds that makes your heart pitter patter.... Once you figure out what it is, then change this.
One can only be used if one lets themselves be used. Sometimes we have no clue why we choose who we choose to be with..... Women have the same tendanceys...
2006-10-04 19:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a cycle that you have to break, when you find yourself attracted to the same kind of women, you will get the same kind of women, you have to train yourself not to be attracted to what you're used to....and there is nothing wrong with being kind and giving, you are just giving too much....sounds like to me, now you need to find a rich woman to get you out of debt!lol
2006-10-04 20:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u looking for the hot & very sexy ones??? No seriously, try a homely & a bit chunky women. I mean sure one needs to be physicaly attractive in order to get something going, but maybe you should relax your expectations. eh.
2006-10-04 19:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say your problem lies in your willingness to give your whole world away. If that's your philosophy protect it from the unfaithful.
2006-10-04 19:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Julian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself a Filipina dream girl. She will be what you want as a wife but don't le her catch you cheating as she will cut your dick off.
2006-10-04 19:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by ang-pogi-ko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋