We've been together for almost two years now, which is my longest relationship, but I feel like it's dragging on pointlessly. Things just aren't the same anymore. We used to go out and do stuff, but now all we do is sit at home and watch tv. Also, I'm not trying to be greedy or superficial, but he's never bought me jewelry and doesn't buy me flowers or surprize me. I'm kind of an old school romantic and he's so not. I would love it if he'd try'd to cuddle with me or tell me I'm beautiful out of nowhere or call just to say he loves me. I have brought this up to him but he just says he loves me and that's all that matters.>? We also live together and he owes me some money for a cruise we went on, so sometimes I feel like that's the only reason I don't end it. Then again, I feel so comfortable with him and he does brighten my day when I'm not in a good mood. I would be very upset if things didnt work out and I don't know if I could, I don't want to pass up something wonderful...advice??
2006-10-04 19:24:26 · 7 answers · asked by cjb 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free. He already gets what any guy wants...you have nothing left to offer him. You are simply being used. Either put up with it or move on.
2006-10-04 19:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After six mths if that males tend to not worry about wining and dining there loved one purley because they already won the prize so theres no point in splashing out.
At the end of the day you will keep plodding along living someone elses life not happy because it isnt what u want.
Communication is one of the biggest factors in any relationship the more you talk about your feelings the more you understand eachother. Material things are nice to recieve but not so important. The biggest gift would be a charming man that keeps you happy and content knowing he loves you as much as you love him.
2006-10-05 02:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by devilishious v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear, and experience what other people go through, and it sounds like you are already at the marriage stage. Love isn't always perfect. It's not always the most romantic, nor is it everything you would want as in gifts, or treasures (the most expensive ring, or something like that). It is just love.
Other than that, I think you should end this relationship if you feel that way. You obviously don't like what's happening.
2006-10-05 02:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either accept him the way he is, or move on. Just don't expect him to change. What you see is what you get.
You must also discover your own happiness. He can't entertain you all the time. Get out and find your own interests if tv bores you. Join a gym, a club, night classes, or something. Stop depending on him to fulfill your feelings of emptiness.
When you're unhappy, go out and find out what makes you happy. You're not stuck to him or anything. If he's not happy about you going out to do your own thing, then he's probably not the guy for you anyway.
2006-10-05 02:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in a rut... i'd say go with you're heart... he may say he loves you, but where's the passion. I'd recomend reading the book,
"He's Just Not That Into You" It's funny but true.
2006-10-05 02:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he still makes u feel good than hang on.
2006-10-05 02:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have answerd your own question
2006-10-05 02:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by shortrock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋