I've gone on the vacations, 1st with my then wife(7yrs) were divorce within a month. 2nd 1yr relationship, broke up on way home. 3rd 1 1/2yr boke up within a month after trip. Weird thing is it seems to make us closer until the end, and then BAM! it over???
2006-10-04 19:19:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry about the grammer, I was trying to make it short, As for the relationships, they were all great it before the vacations. As in no real issues.
2006-10-04 19:28:19 · update #1
I think it's a pattern of yours to try and make vacations fix your relationships... but I guess whenever you went on vacation with your one-and-onlies.... it was always too late...meaning even a vacation couldn't fix the relationship anymore.... Don't blame the act of going on a vacation.... just go on vacation when everything is going ok... not when the relationship is already in a mess.
2006-10-04 19:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are put together in a small space 24 hours a day 7 days a week for 2-3 weeks, you get to know a lot about each other, than at any other time. The break up only showed that you did not get along and you would not get along.
If you did not have gone on a vacation, the break up would have been just on the horizon.
Now that you know that it is a proving ground, take a small vacation first, before you waste all that time in trying to build a relationship.
2006-10-04 19:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by ken88dorset 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but you use horrible grammar and spelling!!
Pfuii..now that that's out of the way, your question...uh? I don't know what you're talking about... sorry. again.
Although I will say this, vacations and relationships usually go well together so, I don't know what's wrong...
2006-10-04 19:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jmyooooh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋