I just dumped this guy. I know he was using me so it had to be done. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do cause I cared about him so much but I knew he would never feel the same about me. I cried and then cried some more now I'm just angry and I have no idea why.
2006-10-04 19:14:40 · 21 answers · asked by kd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you feel so strongly about a person and you now they will never feel that back, that can start to create a sense of emotional anger. After you were done crying over the good things you will miss, you start to realize all the time you wasted and question WHY?! why doesn't he want me? why do i want him so bad if he doesn't? why does he treat me this way? you know you deserve better so you dumped him. that's good, now you just angry that you'll miss the good times you had. But no worries, there should be someone else out there willing to appreciate you better.
2006-10-04 19:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by PhanCsn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anger is a natural Emotion... It happens for lots of reasons... In your particular case you might be releasing anger because of all the time you stayed with him while knowing he was using you...
In other words, you're feeling what you put yourself through... When people push feelings inside and just do things, like staying with someone they shouldn't, those feelings will usually find a way out at some point...
Now that you're not together anymore, you have the space to feel what you probably felt then...
You just need some time, and you should be fine...
Sometimes people need to just feel whatever it is they're feeling...
Anger can sometimes be a good sign that you just care about yourself, and what you've been through...
2006-10-05 02:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Corandero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay you feel like that, it just means your got a heart,
its alright you proberly get angry again an that will make you feel a bit better but dont say or do anything that you may regret later on, so do some yoga or something an cryings okay tears are a form of healing an a part of getting ova it exept if you start cryning all ova the place an cant keep it together forget to look affter yourself become a blubbering mess.
2006-10-05 02:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by GOOCH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I defenitely can understand your feeling. I had it one. But believe me nothing worse than keep him on your side. You angry because you can not understand how come you can get in close with such nasty guy. I know you a smart person, but all people did mistakes including pick up the wrong guy to be loved.
Though God is nowhere that is why the world goes nasty, but since we have to keep go on, release your emotion.
2006-10-05 02:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by orchid palace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you dumping that loser! it is normal to feel angry you are angry problably because this loser used you and the time you spend with him you could have been with someone who was worth your time. Dont worry it will just get better with time! Good luck and hang in there!
2006-10-05 02:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your angry cause you feel like you gave this guy you all that y your angry but it will pass over your see. the next time before you jump head first into it make sure that the guy is really into you.
2006-10-05 02:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by shortrock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is one of the coping mechanisms. I belive there are seven of them. Some people never leave certain steps. Learn to control the anger or find an outlet.
2006-10-05 02:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by onebadmedic01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are angry because he was using you and you knew it- maybe your wondering "is there someone out there for me that will treat me right"? Dont get mad get even or at least think of this--- what goes around comes around and you wont be there to pick the pieces to his broken heart...
2006-10-05 02:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by What Do you Think? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, what you are feeling is normal... first you went into denial, which is why you only dumped him now... the anger you are feeling is also part of the letting- go (grief/mourning) process.
2006-10-05 02:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your angry at yourself for allowing yourself to fall for someone who wasnt worthy, and now your realising how much you gave to him emotionally and physically when he didnt deserve it
Write him a letter even if you dont post it, its very healing, then move on to someone who deserves you
good luck
2006-10-05 02:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by livachic2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋