What to do?I got a STRANGE call from a guy at 11:00 PM.He says he found my # in his wallet. Has called 3 times

Question

He says Hi whats up(like he knows me)I said hey,not knowing for sure who he was yet.He said Is this Amy? I said yeah He goes on to say he's embarrased now-he knows my name and #(found in his wallet)but no last name..does he know me-have we met and so on.I asked a few ?'s on how it may have got in his wallet.I don't give out my #go to clubs etc.No"set ups" possible on my side.No clues.He went on-he was Ken Smith-a people person(blah blah) He asked(after 5 mins. of trying to figure this "mystery" out)if we could play"20 ?'s" to maybe figure it out.At first ?'s were normal, but then turned to sex oriented ones.I didn't want to continue-figured he got my name out of the book-was done being fooled he really found it in his wallet(politely got off the phone)He gave me his # to call him later!I didn't.He called BACK the next morning like he's my friend!I tried to be polite,but I'm scared!He left a message later on during day to call him that nite if want to..I didn't..What if he calls again?

Answer 1

if u know or want to know him, keep talking.
or else say polite no.

Answer 2

Creepy,, dang creepy,, answer the phone next time,, no sense having to dodge it, beside the wacko can continually call you back and state, dude, "I dont know you, not sure how you got my number, I'm not intersted in continuing this call", and end it.. Keep track of all calls if they persist,, and if so,, report to your local telephone company, they can track harassing callers. If they are cell phone calls, be sure to keep detailed statements, and if you dont' have detailed billing, simply activate it, it's of no costs to you.. if that continues,, call the POLICE.. you've got a record of it, and they can make a case against it.

Have a friend stay over if it makes you feel comfortable for a few days,, it will likely die down, and I surely hope so! Sometimes people get mad, or are vengeful and give out numbers, so that others can harass someone,, not sure if this is the case, and either way it's frightening.. if that doesn't work,, grab a 45,, draw back the hammer while he's on the phone, and tell him what he can expect if he harasses you further.. YOU GO GIRL.. he's just another nut, and life is full of them. I wish you well and my best to you!

Answer 3

Don't let someone scare you in your own home. What ever you do DON'T call him back. Tell him your going to call the cops and sue his *** for harassment. If he keeps calling call the police and tell them the number and name he gave you. If it gets really out of hand keep a log of every time he calls you and what he's calling about. Be sure to ask the phone company to make your number is unlisted and be sure your address isn't listed as well. Being a single lady living alone or even with female roommates your number should never be listed. Ask around and see if any of your friends know this guy and then if they say yes then pound their *** and never speak to them again.

Answer 4

Give his number to some guy who you know really well like your dad or brother and have them call HIS number and tell him he is being investigated for harassment ! and to not call you anymore. Maybe that will throw a scare into him? and he will leave you alone. Or you could agree to meet him in a very public place? tell him to wear something that you will be able to notice on him so you will know it is him. Go and see if you know him? if you don't then just go back home without letting him even know that you were there at all. Call the cops if you need to. He is weird or ? good luck Amy. Just call the cops and tell them he is pestering you and you are worried that he might know where you live. Give them his number.

Answer 5

Have a guy friend record a new message for your answering machine. Like" hi, this is Dave and Amy. Leave us a message." Let your real friends know. Or, just let the machine pick up all the time and don't call him back.

Answer 6

Go to the police asap and see if you can stay with a friend for a while till it is all sorted.Change yr number? Keep look for any unknown cars on the street or person that keeps popping up in your face so to speak ...keep a diary if need be and most of all keep yourself safe!

Answer 7

Long time ago , I had a stalker and it stopt because I told him:O, glad you phoned me it's today my birthday you come to help me to blow my 80 candles on the cake?

Look it's probably someone of your friends most of the time they now you.If it happens too much report to police for stalking and take a other phone number but be careful to give it on your friends.And I'm not 80.

Answer 8

Be careful. I've been through this before. In my case it was someone tryin to get my bf to think im cheating. But worse case scenario he could be some psycho stalker or something. Be cautious when ur alone day or night. I would get mace. And if this continues u should change ur number.

Answer 9

You say "hey I remember you now. You were the poor guy with the penis problem. Did you ever get it out of the poor animals behind? So tragic." If he still bothers you than just call the cops. But you should some fun with it first.

Answer 10

find out the non-emergency phone number for the cops in your area, and make a complaint. That way in case anything does happen, there is a record. Morbid, but be safe. They can also give you advise on what you should do.

Answer 11

Sheesh, he sounds a little weird- tell him to stop calling you dont know him and if he continues contact the police department for phone harrassment/ harrasment in general or change your phone number. Good Luck on this one.