Ive like this guy for like a year now! and he knows about it, and he seems to maybe like me as well. I dont no what to do about it thought. If he does like me, i think that he should do something... is that bad? but I want something to happen. If i iniciate something... i dont no if things will go bad. Do you think its okay that i leave it all to him? after all he is the one that knows how i feel about it....
2006-10-04 19:07:47 · 7 answers · asked by nik 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's not man enough to initiate... Forget about it... He's not worth your time...
If you feel you must initiate, then invite him to a social gathering where you'll have other friends around you for support.
If your friends like him and he seems comfortable. He's probably trying to figure out a way to initiate a relationship, but does not want to screw it up. He needs confidence and this would boost it. One would hope.
If he's a bum, he won't be interested. Then you'll have your answer and will have friends there to support you.
2006-10-04 19:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you my own personalized experience. I liked this guy, right and I thought he like me back. The mistake I made was I made it too obvious that I like him I think 'he liked being liked if you know what I mean. He'd smile with me, if he found me in the library (we at same university) he'd sit next to me, he even introduced me to his friends, he even went as far as asking me for my cell number. I gave it to him and guess what? He never, ever called me. Because he gave me his number I'd call him but I cauld always hear it in his voice that he was getting irritated by my phone calls.
I stopped calling him and then we met two or three years later in a shopping mall and he wanted to know if I had a b/f. Because I was always curious to find out if he ever liked me I called him and asked if he had any feelings for me. He told me he never was and never will be interested in me and he has a girlfriend, and if they get married he will not invite me because I had a crush on him.
I was hurt, disappointed in myself for making a fool of myself, for thinking he ever liked me but then I was happy because him being so cruel to me that day was a wake up call for me to finally get over him. When we meet in the streets he still smiles with me (he probably wants to see if I still have a crush on him, unfortunately, NO).
So my advice to you is don't do anything (some men enjoy being drooled over by females) because if he did like you he would have made a more promising move, which he didn't.
2006-10-04 21:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not going to do anything then. He would have done it already if he's the type of person that is going to initiate the conversation about going out. Some people are just shy, and are scared as well. It sounds like you won't get him if you act that way.
2006-10-04 19:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta show some determination and interest. Do a little flirting or ask him if he wants to go out to eat or w/e. Girls asking dudes out isnt a bad thing lol. He might just be scared that you dont like him....SO GET TO IT GIRLIE! Show him whats up ;)
2006-10-04 19:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youve known him for that long just go for it. maybe he is feeling the same way you do and is waiting for you to move...so move.
2006-10-04 19:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
want my email its twister_ultimate_rapper@yahoo.com
and my answers is go for it the only thing thats gonna happen is he is gonna say no
2006-10-04 19:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Christopher P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about? Please be more clear, are u saying you like this guy? well if he likes you then he will for sure do something about it.
2006-10-04 19:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋