i wanna ask or find out somehow if the girl i like likes me back before i get to close and give to much and spend to much and stuff on her so i wont get hurt
what is a good way to find out if she likes me?
2006-10-04 19:03:10 · 17 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way is to tell her you like her.
Say, listen I just wanted you to know, I think you are really cute. Then she will get thinking in her head, "wow, this guy likes me". You cant go wrong with letting her know first, unless she has a boyfreind.
I am a girl so I know. She will either think, 1.Awsome. or
2.He is nice, but I don't know/No
3.Wow, I've never thought of him before, but he is really nice.
Wait a week, give her a flower, don't spend too much. Just one, what ever kind you think she'd like. Watch for her reaction.
If she does not come up, to you after that, and give you some indication she likes you later on, then:
Wait a day or two and ask her if she'll go out with you. If she says flat out No, say, well your really sweet, I just had to find out, and leave it at that. Move on.
If she says I can't ask her if she is not allowed to date. If that is the case tell her you will just see her at school, and you can be friends first. The more time you spend with her the more you will gain her affection.
If she says yes, great.
Good Luck
2006-10-04 19:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight out. Try to get her number from one of her friends, write her a note or just walk up to her when she can talk privately with you. In the end, the longer you wait the more frustrating it can be. You may get hurt but its worth it if she likes you. If she doesn't, the more time you have to learn and move on. Always go for what you want. Good luck. Just try to find out what kind of approach is more you and hopefully she'll see what a catch you are. Later.
2006-10-04 19:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by sueno_sami_lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doubt never brings good end in love affairs, and spying never succeeded to reach the right results.. The best way to guarantee that your girl loves you and will stay loyal to you is to;
1- Cover her with love , care and attention.
2- Spend on her and cover her financial needs.
3- Satisfy her sexually and emotionally.
4- Treat her as an equal person to you and share with her opinion especially in matters that concerns her.
Any girl you get and provide her with the above , she will like you and be devoted to you because what do women require more than that in their personal life?
2006-10-04 19:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This worked pretty well for a guy I know. He thought that this one girl liked him so to test it he said this 'Those pants are becoming on you, if I were on you I'd be coming too.' If she smacks you that would be a no. If she giggles she knows it is a joke. By the way you can't know her as friend especially not well enough to say that to her.
Hope it works for you.
2006-10-04 19:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by sylvanrogue16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont spend anything on her at all. have the mentality "if she likes me, she likes me, but if she doesnt, who cares." but, if you really like this girl and want to take her out, just ask her casually to hang out with you outside of your usual environment. something fun to break the ice...and usually she will give u signs if she is interested in a relationship or not. goodluck.
2006-10-04 19:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by ryan 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her most noisy and talkative friend that you really like her. They will eventually tell everyone and u will find out if she likes you or not. I did it to a girl i liked and she did like me. Believe me. It works
2006-10-04 19:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kieran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she's worth the risk just ask her...small gifts don't hurt either(but nothing too expensive, could make things uncomfortable)
2006-10-04 19:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by sugasofly85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, tell her about it. Hesitation is like masterbation. Just do it. She won't be mad. She may not say yes, but the worst thing that could happen is all in your mind.
2006-10-04 19:06:19 · answer #8 · answered by creerhnter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you egoist because you think only about you,if you like that girl and she accepted to go out with you,you should take thins the way that is,and nothing ales!
2006-10-04 19:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by andreiutza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Be forward, if she says no then she says no. It's better than wasting your time and money. And remember theres always the chance she will say yes :)
2006-10-04 19:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by CaseySokach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋